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Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52665] Thu, 28 August 2008 12:24 Go to next message
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A friend of mine uses this as his motto at one forum we are both members.

What do you of think of this statement, especially according to war-waging of Russia, China, US etc. in other countries?

Marek



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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52667 is a reply to message #52665] Thu, 28 August 2008 12:35 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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When does a 'police action' turn into armed conflict?



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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52668 is a reply to message #52667] Thu, 28 August 2008 12:40 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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When money (in any form(oil, gas, companies)) is taken to account...



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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52673 is a reply to message #52665] Thu, 28 August 2008 13:02 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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We can fight for peace using diplomatic skills, economic skills, cultural skills and so forth. Not all fights have to be armed conflict.

In some cases one has to fight not for peace but for liberty and even life; of course, one yearns for such a fight to end in peace; but the objective is not peace but the defeat of the enemy.

Perhaps one of the biggest lies of the 20th century was the claim that WWI was "the war to end all wars". Excuse my hollow laugh.

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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52674 is a reply to message #52673] Thu, 28 August 2008 13:10 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I know what you mean... Next one (hopefully the last one such vast) waged offensive war outside and war against minorities within. The holocaust happened due to money (what a surprise), if gypsies were that wealthy as Jews, they would be the first. The program was simple: Jews for the money, then Gypsies, then Slavons. I am sorry about suffering of any kind, and after your nation (I assume you are Jewish) we were in line. Cruel idea...

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Marek

P.S. At the moment I am searching for interesting metal bands and everytime I come across a band with NS (national socialism) abbreviation, it makes me sick. Such extreme behaviour is the only thing that makes me feel hateful. >Sad >Sad >Sad >Sad >Sad

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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52679 is a reply to message #52665] Thu, 28 August 2008 17:46 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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It's a view I completely agree with. I have been for many years an "absolute" pacifist, meaning that I think the use of armed force in any situation is indefensible. This makes me pretty much of a minority of one here on this forum!

It doesn't mean that I don't believe in resistance if threatened - but by non-violent means. But best of all is to work to avoid the tensions and economic/other inequalities that lead to war (or so-called "police actions").

The peace pledge, to which I subscribe, reads:

"'War is a crime against humanity. I renounce war, and am therefore determined not to support any kind of war. I am also determined to work for the removal of all causes of war."

I should point out that world pacifism is a vision I try to work towards, not a goal I expect to achieve!



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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52680 is a reply to message #52665] Thu, 28 August 2008 19:02 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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How do you discuss philosophy with a machine gun?

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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52683 is a reply to message #52680] Thu, 28 August 2008 21:30 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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It's almost impossible to regain your freedom once it's gone and your on your knees. It's a very hippy slogan though for a T-shirt...but not one I would choose to live by.
Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52684 is a reply to message #52683] Thu, 28 August 2008 21:35 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Uncle Jim wrote:
> It's almost impossible to regain your freedom once it's gone and your on your knees.

It's pretty damned difficult to regain your freedom once you've been drafted into the armed forces, as well.



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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52685 is a reply to message #52684] Thu, 28 August 2008 22:06 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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The time I served in the army was one of my life experiences and I do not regret it. Some was bad to very bad but I lived through it and was proud knowing I did my best. The group I was with felt we were serving a good cause even though we lost a few good men. I must say it was a wonderful feeling to pass under the Golden Gate bridge coming home.

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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52688 is a reply to message #52685] Fri, 29 August 2008 07:51 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Well, Uncle Jim,

my experiences in the forces were really pretty negative. I don't think I did anything worthwhile. We were led by people who were not admirable and stupid as well. I was not proud and am not and think it is anyway not an admirable thing to be. And I was given a healthy scepticism of the forces, the military mind and the politicians that control them.

At least in those days things were so inefficient that one could get away with avoiding a lot of what they wanted you to do.

But how can anyone be proud of any of the wars the USA or Britain have been involved with since 1945? As far as I can see every one was a disaster and Iraq, the latest of them, is one of the most disasterous.

War is the greatest calamity man can bring down on man. Einstein said as much and I agree with him.

And I've never met a morally honourable serviceman. They are all willing to kill if ordered to without compunction. People who are willing to kill for money are surely amoral and to be despised.

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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52689 is a reply to message #52688] Fri, 29 August 2008 08:02 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Anthony, the Falklands War was an honourable war which protected defenceless British people from having an alien way of life imposed on them. I have never agreed with our involvement in the Iraqi and Afghan wars.

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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52695 is a reply to message #52665] Fri, 29 August 2008 08:56 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I was once more pacifist than I am now, and I am still anti-war, but I agree with some of the comments Uncle Jim and Nigel have made.

As for the quote, I agree with it. Fighting for peace is like fucking for virginity. But I see "peace" as a less worthy goal than "freedom". And fighting for freedom is not hypocritical. A lot of rights have been won through steel.

That said I still believe in non-intervention. I'm opposed to the Iraq War. I just believe that citizens of a nation need to defend themselves from threats abroad and threats at home. It is the Iraqis that should have went to war against Iraq, with foreign aid if and when requested.



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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52696 is a reply to message #52689] Fri, 29 August 2008 09:29 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Nigel wrote:
> Anthony, the Falklands War was an honourable war which protected defenceless British people from having an alien way of life imposed on them.

This is, at the very least, highly debatable.

An alternative point of view would be that the UK had been sending diplomatic signals for years that it really didn't care that much. Most of the Island's infrastructure (power, air strip etc) was supplied and maintained by Argentina. Argentina's decision to invade was strategically unbelievably poor, as there's a good chance they would eventually have achieved effective further control by negotiation. The UK's decision to retaliate was more from pique than sense.

The only remotely "honourable" thing about the whole sorry affair was the resignation of Lord Carrington as Foreign Secretary. The sinking of the Belgrano touched a nadir of British conduct unmatched until our recent entanglement with "extraordinary rendition".



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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52699 is a reply to message #52696] Fri, 29 August 2008 11:39 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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"Extraordinary rendition"? Splain please.

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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52700 is a reply to message #52699] Fri, 29 August 2008 11:58 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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"Extraordinary rendition and irregular rendition are terms used to describe the apprehension and extrajudicial transfer of a person from one state to another", as Wikipedia puts it.

Crudely, the illegal kidnapping of people and taking out of the country, usually for purposes of torture and/or incarceration.

Despite frequent denials, the UK was forced to admit that its territories has been used as a staging posts for at least two of these events, and seems to have been complicit in either the actual rendition or the questioning under torture of assorted other detainees.

It's currently a rather live issue over here - see http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2008/aug/22/terrorism.humanrights for example



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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52701 is a reply to message #52696] Fri, 29 August 2008 14:12 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Yes, NW, that's an alternative point of view. I cannot share it, particularly the bit about diplomatic negotiation.

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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52707 is a reply to message #52688] Fri, 29 August 2008 17:23 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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>And I've never met a morally honourable serviceman. They are all willing to kill if ordered to without compunction. People who are willing to kill for money are surely amoral and to be despised.

And yet you were a serviceman. Are you amoral and despicable? I think not. Nor am I or the brave men and women I served with.



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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52709 is a reply to message #52707] Fri, 29 August 2008 17:32 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Hey Anthony
My grandfather was a Yeoman Third Class United States Navy Reserves
He fought during World War Two on three DDE's{destroyer escorts}
He was an honorable man who served his country with dignity, why would you insult his memory and my family by assuming rather callously that he(and in this case most servicemen/women) was a dishonorable serviceman...

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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52716 is a reply to message #52665] Fri, 29 August 2008 21:16 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52717 is a reply to message #52716] Fri, 29 August 2008 21:42 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Well, the alternative English expression is " ... fucking for chastity", which you might find a closer analogy.

As a veteran of a reasonable number of CND, "Troops Out", "Not In My Name" and other assorted protests at the futility of it all, I've seen both "... virginity" and "... chastity" on placards, with the latter probably being more common.

NW



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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52722 is a reply to message #52688] Sat, 30 August 2008 07:23 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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acam wrote:
> And I've never met a morally honourable serviceman. They are all willing to kill if ordered to without compunction. People who are willing to kill for money are surely amoral and to be despised.

And those who left nazi persecution to come to other nations and to fight against it, those who fought to end the extermination of Jews, Gypsies, non Aryan races, mentally ill, cripples, homosexuals in the holocaust? Those who turned to fight facing death voluntarily instead of compulsorily rather than simply fled? What of them?



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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52725 is a reply to message #52720] Sat, 30 August 2008 11:38 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Michael Sargeant (Since 1941) wrote:
> War occurs when that balance is disturbed, by over-population, greed or scarcity of natural resources.

I'd pretty much agree with that, though I tend not to see things in terms of the balance of power but in more general terms of inequality. Which is why the phrase "I am also determined to work for the removal of all causes of war." is such an important - and often overlooked - part of the Peace Pledge.



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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52727 is a reply to message #52725] Sat, 30 August 2008 12:57 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Yes. That's, of course, probably the hardest thing to achieve.

When oil is crucial to a certain way of life and there isn't enough oil for everyone to use either people need to sacrifice their lifestyles or engage in violence to secure oil off others.

NW, would you rather kill, or live the rest of your life without electricity? To me it is actually quite a difficult question. I'd like to think it is easy to answer "of course I wouldn't kill". But living without electricity..... No fridge, 90% of my entertainment gone, 99% of my communication gone, transport severely hampered, candles as the main source of light. And this would apply for all things that impact my life- most stores I shop at wouldn't be able to sell half the products they do.

So how many lives would I sacrifice to ensure Australia had electricity? More than one. Possibly even hundreds. There is always a case where lifestyle is worth more than life- otherwise people wouldn't drive cars. Cars destroy lives, yet the amount they improve our lifestyle makes the deaths caused worth it.

Grim, yet true.



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Re: Fighting for peace is like f...ing for virginity  [message #52730 is a reply to message #52727] Sat, 30 August 2008 13:23 Go to previous message
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Saben wrote:

> NW, would you rather kill, or live the rest of your life without electricity?

I'd rather work towards not having to make the choice! Alternative sources of electricity (hydro / solar-thermal / wind / tidal / geothermal / photovoltaic / waste biomass / "clean" coal, with underground gasification if necessary / etc.), massive reduction in the use of oil for private transport, massive reduction in the use of oil products (plastics) for everything non-recyclable.

There are very tough decisions to be taken NOW, if we are to avoid large-scale energy/resource wars in the next decade or so. It may already be too late - they are already happening in some parts of the world, over both oil and water.

But, to answer your question in more realistic terms, I would rather live in a society that was experiencing massive civil unrest and rioting than I would live in one that was engaged on largescale active warfare to take monopoly control of sources of oil.

Public-transport-using aging hippy tree-hugger? Yup, that's me! But the way forward is though improved technology to create and popularise low-impact lifestyles ... and an improved morality recognising a duty of care to fellow humans both in person and through the environment to go with it.



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