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Fingolfin
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I know that this subject appeared once, but here it is again.
Timmy, if you have a feeling that this somehow violates the rules, please, remove it...
This is no porn site and I'm not making one of it, but I had this anonymous discussion (web) with a boy (stating he was 13) who declared he was afraid his cock was too small (13 cm erected). I calmed him down, he asked about myself and the worldwide average... I stated my size (14/4,5 cm). I think I could feel a relief on his side of the discussion. What do you think? What sizes are you?
Marek
It is better to switch on a small light than to curse the darkness.
- Vincent Šikula, Slovak writer
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timmy
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I have a perfect scale model, slightly below average, restricted by some unpleasant surgery a few years ago. It's quite small in its soggy state, but erects to about 5.5" I had a little more length before the surgery, perhaps a quarter of an inch more.
Regrettably the surgery means it doesn't work as well as it used to, but I'm grateful that it works at all.
When I was 12 I was terrified that it was "too small" because no-one had explained properly the disproportionate and sudden growth that the onset of puberty brings. I was "in tears terrified" and deeply embarrassed and very shy because of it.
I wonder why we give size so much importance. After all, all it has to do is to function and we then use our skill that we learn to please a partner.
As a side issue, please can I counsel you to be very careful in discussing genitals with minors or people posing as minors online. People may take a different view of your motives from the reality. Nothing at all about the conversation should be in the smallest part erotic.
[Updated on: Tue, 30 September 2008 16:26]
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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Dear Marek,
It's interesting but not a charged subject for me. So much so that I don't know what my size is. Since I have got old I don't get a firm erection any more and I'm almost sure that its erect size is smaller than it used to be, but it's about average now I guess. [I think 'average' is about six inches or 150 mm. There's a Wikipedia article on penis size that suggests a little under six inches.]
I once took some pictures of myself when erect. It was a good enough size then! It must have been at the age of 20 or 21 I think. I kept the film undeveloped for a long time before I met someone who could develop it for me. I think the long wait had a bad effect on the resolution of the film. It was a very high speed film as the pictures were taken at night in my bedroom and I had no flash. Those pictures look bigger!
Love,
Anthony
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I'm on the larger side. Roughly 16cm erect (give or take a cm based on how horny I am) and exceptionally thick. Ryan is probably around 14.5cm and quite thin. We are both circumcised.
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At 13 I probably would have been 12-13cm. Most of my growth seemed to occur around 15-17
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Well, I haven't measured mine for years, but I don't think I'm particularly well-endowed (somewhere between 5 and 6 inches, probably). But it doesn't matter much, which is why I haven't measured it for ages.
I'm surprised that this (possible) 13 year-old was anxious about 13 cm (just over 5 inches). It sounds fine to me, and will presumably get larger over time.
David
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I agree with you. I only measured mine out of curiosity after the surgery when it felt restricted.
Since most men do not see other men erect, and since soggy state is no indicator at all of erect size, I wonder why it has passed into male mythology as important.
Women will tell you that length is undesirable. The vagina has finite length and accommodating a cucumber is not that much fun. Even men do not appreciate huge length anally, because the canal has a 90 degree bend in it, and rearranging one's insides is uncomfy (dildo boy speaking here!), plus there is no real need to get impaled on a long spike! The prostate is near the entrance!
Girth is far more interesting to ladies. Short fat ones are quite prized (unless the owner can't keep it in!). The anus will stretch to accommodate enormous widths (see fisting videos if you have the stomach for it and don't believe me!) but there is either the danger or the rumour that anal muscle tone is lost with over generous insertion of fat objects. Nonetheless girth is also interesting to men, but it does take time and practice (dildo boy again!) to learn how to receive them without wincing!
All I'd like is a good lover with a normal dick (whatever that means) who knows how to please me and him.
So why oh why do we worry?
Marek, you started this thread! Any ideas?
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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I hadn't measured mine for about 20 years (the last time was at the request of a curious friend!). So I measured it again last night. No change ... seems to have been the same size (six and an eighth inches, 15.6 cm) since I was about 19. So it doesn't seem to be wilting with age ...
At 13 for me puberty hadn't started ... so I reckon around 2 inches! But once my dick started growing, it didn't stop until my very late teens.
13cm at 13 y.o sounds pretty bloody good: many of the 14/15 year olds that I saw erect when I was that age myself would have been grateful for it!
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Fingolfin
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Well, thx all.
I gave him 3 questions and wrote him to think them over. No need to reply. However, he replied, 3 times YES.
1. Does it get erect when you want?
2. Do you reach orgasm without problems?
3. Are the feelings pleasing?
He replied and I wrote him back, that he is a normal healthy boy who needs nothing to worry about.
As for your question, Timmy, I don't know. If everything works and is pleasant, a partner is satisfied, you are satisfied, everything's fine then. I'm really clueless... Maybe the porn films, or the general need to measure and compare...
Marek
It is better to switch on a small light than to curse the darkness.
- Vincent Šikula, Slovak writer
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Fingolfin
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One more thing:
a photo of erect penis can be taken the way it looks larger (or, of course, smaller). Guess, which manner is more preferred...
Marek
It is better to switch on a small light than to curse the darkness.
- Vincent Šikula, Slovak writer
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