I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
A study indicated that a massive 22% of Tumblr's content was pornographic in origin. That's a lot of web traffic they are turning away. Some new porn-friendly Tumblr-like site will have to emerge to fill the gap. Perhaps they could call it Cumblr.