I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
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The title is provocative. The essay is worth reading. But read all of it, don't start, assume, and stop. At the end there is a link to his follow-up essay. That needs to be read as well.