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Stereotypes still abound  [message #66428] Sun, 15 January 2012 15:51 Go to next message
timmy

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I just received this email from a 'wellwisher'

BEGINS
Hi, is this your article on rape?

http://iomfats.org/resources/health/raped.html

If it is your article, why are you blaiming straight men for the actions of homosexual child rapists?

How can a stright man maintain an erection unless he is sexualy eroused? Why would straight man want to put his erect penis up a child's butt? If it were just about "power" then a guy would use an object like a broom handle or something else just to humilate the indavidual.

Most closet Homsexuals that rape little boys are to afraid to rape a grown man or seek out other adults for gay sex. They hide their homoseuxality it because they are araid of getting their brains beat in by a straight man.

In 2001 I met this man who raped a little boy. After watching him for some time I saw him catching a football and he caught it like this fairy. Then he started running and it was clear he was a homosexual the way he tried to run like he thought he was a woman. It was after this I had found out he raped a little boy.
ENDS

I replied, thanking him for emailing me. It didn't seem worthwhile taking his ideas apart one by one, but you are all welcome to if you wish.

[Updated on: Sun, 15 January 2012 15:52]




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icon4.gif Re: Stereotypes still abound  [message #66430 is a reply to message #66428] Tue, 17 January 2012 05:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Brody Levesque is currently offline  Brody Levesque

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WASHINGTON – The author of this particular e-mail rant, Jeff Bell, hails from a part of Minnesota, which in recent years has given rise to anti-gay, anti-woman’s rights, and xenophobic groups whose determination to demonise their fellow citizens has become a subject of debate and embarrassment in the state.

In grammatically incorrect and poorly written screed, Bell asks: “If it is your article, why are you blaiming [sic] straight men for the actions of homosexual child rapists?”

The particular language quoted is directly attributable to the published as well as public utterances of the Southern Poverty Law Center's certified hate groups, Washington D. C. based The Family Research Council, and Tupelo, Mississippi based The American Family Association. Both organisations have used the so-called research of the discredited Paul Cameron, whose membership in numerous American Psychological professional groups was revoked over claims similar to those expressed by Bell, for being patently false, based on flawed and inaccurate research that Cameron has done in his alleged studies of LGBTQ people.

Bell is apparently also channeling the notoriously anti-gay so-called Evangelical minister Bradley Dean, whose rabidly anti-gay radio programme has a significant following in that part of Minnesota. Dean has numerous times claimed on the air that homosexuals are responsible for all child rapes.

Bell then asks: “ How can a stright [sic ] man maintain an erection unless he is sexualy eroused?{sic} Why would straight man want to put his erect penis up a child's butt? If it were just about "power" then a guy would use an object like a broom handle or something else just to humilate [sic] the indavidual. [sic]

Like most poorly educated anti-gay individuals as evidenced again by his poor use of the English language, Bell immediately highlights the sexual act as such without bothering to research the actual conditions of an act of violent sexual assault. Bell asserts that the man must maintain an aroused state, however, according to experts in Human Behaviours at the Centers for Disease Control in Atlanta, Georgia, along with highly credible researchers and clinicians at the Johns Hopkins University center for the study of human sexuality in Baltimore, Maryland, these offences are not sexual in nature so much as acts of asserting dominion and power.

His graphic description involving inanimate objects on the hand, tends to make one wonder as to whether or not he has a certain level of expertise in these types of sexual assaults.

The next section of Bell's missive is interesting: “Most closet Homsexuals [sic] that rape little boys are to afraid to rape a grown man or seek out other adults for gay sex. They hide their homoseuxality [sic]it because they are araid [sic] of getting their brains beat in by a straight man.”

Use of the phrase 'closet homosexuals,' and then tied together with the unsubstantiated claim that those same persons 'rape' little boys is the type of outright falsehoods and bigotry foisted on unsuspecting members of the public at large by the 'corporate christians' whose claims again rely on the untruths spread by FRC, AFA, and of course Cameron. The truth is that most self loathing gay men who are unable to come to terms with themselves are rarely arrested in a predatory mode and even more rarely in commission of acts of paedophilia. They do however tend to be publicly outed after getting caught 'In flagrante delicto' usually with a rent boy or stripper or a married male.

The claim of getting 'their brains beat in' is mitigated by the realities of the cruising scene, the bar scene and the modern cruising for sex on Craig’s List and of course the smart phone App, Grindr.

Predictably Jeff Bell then states: In 2001 I met this man who raped a little boy. After watching him for some time I saw him catching a football and he caught it like this fairy. Then he started running and it was clear he was a homosexual the way he tried to run like he thought he was a woman. It was after this I had found out he raped a little boy.”

This passage of course is little more than standard rubbish that always manages to have stereotypes portraying Gay men as effeminate and less than manly.

Given Bell's adherence to the dogma of the corporate christian fringe movement, it is instantly dismissible as the hate filled vitriol of a person who is quite obviously very uncomfortable with his own sexuality and most likely spend a lot of time devoted to sick fantasies of forcible sodomy.

Here's Bell e-mail address should anyone wish to engage in banal meaningless exchanges of dreck & drivel as Bell is apparently not quite bright enough to have any form of meaningful discourse. Please note the video game reference in the address which speaks volumes about Bell given the context of his ad hominem attacks on gay persons.

dkong@cpinternet.com
Re: Stereotypes still abound  [message #66435 is a reply to message #66430] Thu, 19 January 2012 09:56 Go to previous message
timmy

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I've tempted brody to highlight the remainder of the email exchanges with this sweet gentleman. They illustrate bigotry by non sequitur.



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