I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
These sections were written for a good friend whose boyfriend so wanted to bottom for him, but could not manage for various reasons, including the taboo nature of the anus. By working gently through the sections together they found a mutually fulfilling sexual congress was possible.
It should be emphasised than anal sex is absent from a great many gay men's repertoire, and that this is absolutely fine. Doing what is enjoyable for both parties is important. I have a belief that one should try stuff before rejecting it, but that is just me, and even then there are some things I have no interest in trying! I do not choose snails of a restaurant menu, and have never eaten one.
Registered: December 2003
I had forgotten the excellent Resources section on Health that your parent site provides. That you chose to create a detailed series of topics related to this issue is commendable; but all to often it is a topic seldom discussed elsewhere. It was for this reason when I saw the article at Toronto's Xtra Magazine, thinking of our hidden youngster, I felt the need to bring it to our collected attention.
Warren C. E. Austin
The Gay Deceiver