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icon5.gif Of course LGBT folk are also discriminatory, biased  [message #74511] Sun, 01 July 2018 21:00 Go to next message
timmy   United Kingdom

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That does not mean it is a good thing, but it is bizarre that some of "our" number express surprise that, for example:
  • White LGBT folk, often raised in a relativeky bigoted way, are in some manner racist against black forlk, and hence black LGBT folk. The reverse is also expected.
  • People who do not understand Bi folk exhibit prejudice against them
  • LGBT folk express bioas against "breeders". Even the use of the term is pejorative
  • LGBT folk of different political persuasions exhibit partisanship sometimes far greater than a heterosexual person might. 

I could very probably go on. But why are we surprised about this? Does being LGBT make us somehow special and incapable of bias or discrimination?

Look at the businesses who have decided either to print gay banners or not to print gay banners. I don't much care about the rights and wrongs of this, nor do I understand the rationale for compelling these folk to print or not to print them. But what I find I dislike is folk who pick up the cudgel of being "against this sort of thing" and trying to force them either to print a gay banner or not to print one. That, too, is bias.

Or is bias not "real bias" when the cudgel is wielded by an LGBT person?

Yes, there are different elements here. Please do not conflate them, nor think that I am conflating them.

What is your reaction to the title of this post, "Of course LGBT folk are also discriminatory, biased"?

[Updated on: Sun, 01 July 2018 21:20]




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Re: Of course LGBT folk are also discriminatory, biased  [message #74516 is a reply to message #74511] Mon, 02 July 2018 18:20 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Pedro   United Kingdom

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Of course we all bring our own bottles to the party. Anyone who won't admit that is kidding themselves and bigoted in their own way. 



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Re: Of course LGBT folk are also discriminatory, biased  [message #74518 is a reply to message #74516] Mon, 02 July 2018 20:55 Go to previous message
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Of course we all have our own biases and prejudices - all humans do. The best we can hope for is to be aware of such things within us, and try our best not to let them affect our speech or actions.

However, I have to take issue with "Look at the businesses who have decided either to print gay banners or not to print gay banners. I don't much care about the rights and wrongs of this, nor do I understand the rationale for compelling these folk to print or not to print them. But what I find I dislike is folk who pick up the cudgel of being "against this sort of thing" and trying to force them either to print a gay banner or not to print one. That, too, is bias."

For me, it's very simple. People can do what the hell they like in their own homes. However, if someone offers goods or services to the public, they must expect to make them available to the whole public - no discrimination. Yes: I have some experience of this - when I was a public servant operating rooms and halls to hire, I had some clients who I regarded as morally bankrupt (Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministry, Nation of Islam, etc for extreme homophobia, BNP for racism, spring to mind). Nevertheless, I and my team did our best to deliver the best service possible to these clients, along with all others.

There's muddy ground surrounding clubs (including Churches). However, it seems clear to me that the public as taxpayers should not support such institutions (by tax relief, offical support / Establishment, etc) if the institution bars or disadvantages people on grounds over which individuals have no control - sexuality, age, gender identity, ethnicity, disability.

I've experienced enough direct discrimination in the 40ish years I've been "out", and some in the dozen years I've been "disabled", to realise the the different kinds of discrimination different groups experience have far fewer similarities than might be supposed. What, however, is clear to me is that if discrimination against a particular group is allowed to grow to public acceptability, physical violence surely follows. We've seen a massive growth in physical violence against disabled people over the past ten years in the UK, despite legal protection, because there's been a government and popular media narrative of "fakers and scroungers". Conversely, we've seen a reduction in queerbashings (I haven't been queerbashed since the 1980s) as some forms of public gay/lesbian exprssion have become acceptable.

For me, the social / legal sanctions on people who refuse service to any particular group because of what they are, rather than what they believe or views they hold, are a really important part of ensuring a safer society for all of us.



"The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral, begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy. ... Returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night devoid of stars." Martin Luther King
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