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Re: For Twilight Wolf ... the other side of your thoughts  [message #15093 is a reply to message #15053] Mon, 22 September 2003 08:13 Go to previous messageGo to next message
ron is currently offline  ron

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May I say (yet again) that it's postings like this one which continue to make me feel so fortunate to have found this message board.



We do not remember days...we remember moments.

Cesare Pavese
icon4.gif I received the most appalling email from the deleted poster  [message #15138 is a reply to message #15061] Mon, 22 September 2003 23:48 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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It sought to hurt several people and was widely enough distributed by the originator to be actionable as a defamation.

Since it contained so much bile I am not going to do as I normally do and post it as a flame, for that will simply hurt those he intended to hurt.

I am a big boy. It cannot hurt me. But the intent behind it and his vitriolic email to hurt a teenager and others too has caused me to take the decision to delete any and all further posts from that poster of whatever nature.

It seems to me to be very strange that, just as a horrible session gets settled this particular soul turns back up and stirs up a hornets nest again. But I was unsurprised.



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
icon9.gif Re: I received the most appalling email from the deleted pos  [message #15141 is a reply to message #15138] Tue, 23 September 2003 00:24 Go to previous messageGo to next message
rick is currently offline  rick

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I would like to know how I got mixed up in this e-mail deal ??

Because it didn't have anything to do with me ...
But I will say this about both of them ( e-mail messages ) ..
I saw hate and hurt in both of them ..

and maybe we should try and work it out with the people involve with it and not bring more people into it ..
icon4.gif Re: I received the most appalling email from the deleted poster  [message #15155 is a reply to message #15138] Tue, 23 September 2003 02:06 Go to previous messageGo to next message
robert bryce is currently offline  robert bryce

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it wasnt me.........rob
icon8.gif I don't care who it was ....  [message #15165 is a reply to message #15061] Tue, 23 September 2003 03:19 Go to previous messageGo to next message
kevin is currently offline  kevin

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Do not hurt my friends !!!!!

They are to special for that.

Let this end. I am begging you.

Kevin



"Be excellent to each other, and, party on dudes"!
icon13.gif Re: I don't care who it was ....  [message #15167 is a reply to message #15165] Tue, 23 September 2003 04:31 Go to previous messageGo to next message
robert bryce is currently offline  robert bryce

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how in the heck is all this hurt going to end..this thread needs to be locked and put on the back pages.What I am seeing is old hurts still being dragged around.Ok rob was being an over critical duffas.That has ended.Wipe the slate clean and start a new day with the resolve to bring a newfound sense of security to this site....End the moaning and crying----its over but if every second post continues with same-old-same-old,its never going to end...I know I still have a lot of work to do in controlling my anger and not responding in such a defensive way,but dont make it so hard...Friendship is a two-way street and it has to be offered......rob
it was not Rob  [message #15173 is a reply to message #15138] Tue, 23 September 2003 07:03 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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I half was going to say that at the start, but I did not want his name brought back into the fray over this.

I post this because he has asked me to, but truly I want to delete this post saying it was not he, and his posts saying the same, since they only link him with something that was both not of his doing, and is not pleasant to be linked to.

For Rick: I have no idea why you were brought into this either. Nor the other two gentlemen.



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
icon7.gif Re: I need to try to say something........  [message #15180 is a reply to message #14667] Tue, 23 September 2003 11:29 Go to previous messageGo to next message
yourbestgayfriend is currently offline  yourbestgayfriend

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I am brand new to this MB... and while those of you who have been here for some time are having issues... I have to say as a newby that just reading all the replies to smith's concern shows there is a lot of love and caring that do truly exist here between you all... and I would like to say 'us'.

There are always those who would like to bring the other one down. Of course we all know misery loves company.

Rise above that. Just saying you care smith has elicited such a response from so many... and we all care too. And as a new comer, I can't tell you already how much I care about everyone on this board.

We can give to this world while we are here or we can take away. I choose to give. I choose to celebrate who I am and who is in my path in life. I know, in my heart, everyone is here for a reason.

Keep your head up, smith. It will get better as we all show we care !!!!



Celebrate your life... embrace your love... Become intimate with your place in forever !!!
Rob...... Stop and count to 100.....  [message #15181 is a reply to message #15167] Tue, 23 September 2003 11:33 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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Don't get upset.....

Take your time and post well....

OK?



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
icon7.gif welcome!  [message #15182 is a reply to message #15180] Tue, 23 September 2003 11:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
misplaced is currently offline  misplaced

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hello bambam (ahhh, ahhh! my favorite skater's name, times two!), it's good that you peeked out from lurk-ness and said hello, and also said how you feel. Smile

like any kind of family, there's always rocky points, but i hope these ones will pass; in ways they seem to be.

i look forward to reading more from you. Smile



my void does not want.

-- 2.13.61.
Rob..... huggs you tight.....  [message #15183 is a reply to message #15167] Tue, 23 September 2003 11:37 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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Just let it go....

I am here with you....



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
Bambam.... Begin a thread anew and tell us about you....  [message #15184 is a reply to message #15180] Tue, 23 September 2003 11:41 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

Needs to get a life!

Registered: March 2003
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It is good to see you with us.... We love to see the family grow....



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
Re: it was not Rob  [message #15186 is a reply to message #15173] Tue, 23 September 2003 11:50 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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We all know it was not you Rob....



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
icon7.gif Re: Rob...... Stop and count to 100.....  [message #15187 is a reply to message #15181] Tue, 23 September 2003 11:54 Go to previous message
robert bryce is currently offline  robert bryce

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Robert is not upset,robert is too busy being nice to himself after a long time of hurt and I am still counting.The anger has gone.It really has.Right now I am laughing my ass off...Maybe thats the wrong to say.When is enough -enough...Friends,brothers and sisters argue and fight but they soon stop the silliness and get on with the business of being just kids and having fun.All the posts,they are important,ARE OLD BUSINESS...THIS IS A NEW DAY.New adventures,new stories to tell,new friends to make and old friends still to say WE LOVE YOU...rob
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