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marc
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whoever said childhood HAD to be innocent?
Mine was wonderfully full.
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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marc
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Oh my......
Blush........
I used a carrot.......::-)
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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marc
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Actually......
If asked in the right manner........
I still do.........
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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marc
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I think you need to get out and get laid.
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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marc
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You need to take the step further.
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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marc
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Definately not so.......
All the boys were accessable to me from the 4th grade on.....
Both as willing participants to my suggestions as well as writers of their own scenierios.
And I lived in a town where there were ALOT of boys......
Never a dull moment.....
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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marc
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In my neighborhood......
My childhood was as conventional as all the other boys......
The general conclusion I have drawn is that people need to deal with the plethora of phobia and move on to a pleasant fruitful life.
Some have managed to do that over the years I have been participating here and others wallow in the quagmire of stagnent emotions they refuse to rid themselves of.
It takes effort to do it and even more effort to keep what ground you gain.
Sometimes the answer is as simple as doing a little less analyzing and a bit more feeling to make a modicum of headway.
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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Analysing is easy. It doesn't involve any risks or challenge the status quo.
It's also largely tommyrot. (Freud et al? There is a reason that psychology is not classified as a science.)
You are right, of course. I need to get out more.
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Deeej,
You wrote "Try to think back to when you were 8 or something."
Unfortunately for me at the age of 6 I was experiencing orgasm and involved in other sexual activity all at the hands of a 14 year old pervert teenage boy that lived next door. Carrots and Pencils were never a temptation although they might have been had I been left alone to experiment in the normal process of growing up and coming of age.
In so many regards that devastated my life and am only now at the age of 48 able to begin to put it all in proper perspective.
Even so this thread has been both educational and definitely amusing.
John
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marc
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Reguarding the English.......
I lived there for some 4 1/2 years and found the experience to be exceptional as well as memorable.
At that time, gay culture was mostly closeted and just begining to blossom (ask Tim about Birmingham)..... As is the rule, study took it's toll on much of my time but my other half and I made sure we had pleanty of time for play as well. Work committments at the time paved the way to encounters and experiences unimaginable unless you were in the trade.
So.... on the face of the coin.... innocent.... I guess so....
but on the flip side.... nope, not at all....
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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