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That should get your attention.
What I mean is simple. We are not "deigned" to have sex with the same gender.
- oral sex, while fun, is not what "nature" intended, male/male, male/femal, or female/female. I wil now confine my remarks to male/male
- penetrating another's anus with a penis is not a natural act, and even requires a leap of faith. The anus, we are taught, is unclean.
- being penetrated by a penis is not easy without great relaxation and patience
- mutual mastribation is not instinctive as a sexual act
- even in gay men there is (often) an overwhelming desire to raise a child
Now, with the cat set firmly among the pigeons, I would say that I instinctively crave this form of sexual congress.
This thread could get quite fun!
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People concerns themselves too much with what nature "intended" imo. Like we could ever REALLY know. 
'If nature intended for us to fly, we'd been given wings.' I'm sure you've all heard it said at one time or another, most often jokingly. So, who cares if 'nature' never intended for us to have oral sex? It's pleasant, that's all that matters!
We do all sorts of stuff all the time which 'nature' obviously never intended, so why center in so specifically on sexual acts? Are there people working to ban cars because they're unnatural, no. But there are people working to ban homosexual activities all over the world because of them supposedly being unnatural. Extreme example of double standards, imo.
Much the same goes for masturbation, anal sex etc. If it works for you, what's the point of trying to figure out if it's something nature intended or not. It's all a question of wether you can keep an open mind and accept that which is different or not. And of course, oral/anal sex etc is something that works just as well in M/F couplings as well, so it should not be that big a step really as long as people don't resort to prejudice and bigotry.
Second-guessing nature, now that's something that won't ever fly.
-Lenny
"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."
-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
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Yeah...on this one I gotta go with Lennie.
Design theory might be an interesting thread, tho...
Designed?? Designed by whom...or what...?
"Always forgive your enemies...nothing annoys them quite so much." Oscar Wilde
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I am definately NOT mis-wired.
Are left-handed people mis-wired simply because they are less than 10% of the population? I think not.
"Always forgive your enemies...nothing annoys them quite so much." Oscar Wilde
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There are numerous documeted instances of species other than man engaging in same-sex intercourse. IMO, it is not just instinctual, but other animals derive pleasure from the sexual act also.
Second point, oral and anal sex may be unnatural, but they are a very convenient way to derive preasurable feelings to the sex organs. If it feels goooood, do it.
Hugs, Charlie
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"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."
-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
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The fact that sexual acts give pleasure is that animals (this includes us) have sex and through it ensure the survival of the species. But in these days with the overpopulation and everything same-gender sex IS natural since it contributes to the survival of our species (think about it :0)). I'll finish with a quote from a good man "If it feels goooood, do it." :0)
Love, Gil
Searching for the light at the end of the bed...
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1. Oral sex is as natural as any other method. If you own a dog, you will know what I mean.
2. The phobias we have learned about anal penetration are just that, learned. Even animals know that friction from a tight orifice is what is needed to stimulate the sex organ.
3. Bad subject, but....rape is never done in a relaxed or patient atmosphere.
4. See point one.
Hugs, Charlie
5. Nurturing is instinctive. There are many instances of adoption (even cross species) in the animal kingdom.
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I don't think left and right handedness are in the same league as sexual attraction and orientation,
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Perhaps not, Tim. However, I have a good friend who is left-handed; and when he was growing up (he's in his mid '60s now, to provide a frame of time reference), a nosy aunt inquired of his mother why she was allowing him to use "the wrong hand" (and she didn't mean for mastubation, either!).
I think the same sort of myopic mentality is at work here as it is with the general societal attitude towards homosexuality.
We do not remember days...we remember moments.
Cesare Pavese
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I've often thought the same thing, Gil. I wonder if any of the same people who go around pesecuting (and executing) homosexuals ever stopped to think that homosexuality might just be part of God's master plan: a means to prevent over-population. Therefore, by persecuting (and, of course, executing) homosexuals, they are actually doing the Devil's work.
Think about it.
We do not remember days...we remember moments.
Cesare Pavese
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Heh. I'm left-handed AND bi... What would that make me? 
