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Why is it that we so often fall for guys who are bad for us? ??
"Always forgive your enemies...nothing annoys them quite so much." Oscar Wilde
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Not quite sure. But this is not something unique to the GLTB community. Many of my straight frinds find themselves asking very similiar questions. I think it's human nature to be a little blind where love is concerned.
Just my opinion,
Kevin
"Be excellent to each other, and, party on dudes"!
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i think most of us (or maybe all, to extents) have a part deep down that loves the thrill of a 'bad guy' (or person). the element of never knowing what will happen, of never knowing where you stand, the chase, the thrill when you catch or you are caught -- et. al. and even when we wind up hurt, or shunned, ignored or all of the above, we still have that part that remains. a flame that never goes out, really, no matter how small it is.
danger and bad-ness has always had some sort of strange allure.
my void does not want.
-- 2.13.61.
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marc
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Needs to get a life! |
Registered: March 2003
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Ok, here goes.....
First, for the most part people look for the unattainable in a relationship. They are expecting their partner to fulfill some inner need.
As the relationship develops it becomes more and more apparent that these needs are not being met.....
Second, In the GLBT community, relationships (for the most part) tend to last about as long as a trip to the mens room at the local gay bar. Every one is looking for the perfect partner. In reality, there is no such thing. Compromises always have to be made by both sides of a relationship.
Third, A lot of men are just ass holes...
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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robert bryce
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Registered: January 1970
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Marc ol friend:: I love you very much,but that last should have been a private e-mail to a very deserving person.........rob;-D ;-D ;-D ;-D ;-D ;-D ;-D ;-D ;-D
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marc
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Needs to get a life! |
Registered: March 2003
Messages: 4729
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Play nice Rob.....
It was an answer to a question..... Noting more.....
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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David, that is the reason I asked that dating question the other day... because I learned that I can only see things one way... which is either through rose colored glasses or very skewed at best...
I think it may be that we do it because we don't do enough background looking before committing to the relationship that is bad for us. We live on adrenaline and infatuation.. which turns to tiredness, sadness, and disgust... after the honeymoon...
BamBam
Celebrate your life... embrace your love... Become intimate with your place in forever !!!
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