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Hey yall... Wow, Steve just broke up with me I think. He got into an accident driving on RT 46 ( I odn't know who is familiar with Jersey butti isnt a pleasnt place to be.) Umm he says hes ok but has totalled his car. I dunnoe he told me that I should probably see someone up here since he wont be able to see me for ages now. I think that means we broke up but I really don't know. Im also not sure if I hsould tell my parents. I'm so confuzzled...
Love
Andy
Why are you wearing that stupid man suit?
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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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It means only what he says. he can't easily get to see you. But you saw each other before he drove?
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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gonna send you private e-mail on this.
Love,
Kevin
"Be excellent to each other, and, party on dudes"!
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I'm with Timmy...don't assume it means he wants to break up unless he says so...and you can ask directly if you want to...that would be better than groping in the dark and trying to guess.
I'll talk to you soon, little buddy!
Hugs!!
"Always forgive your enemies...nothing annoys them quite so much." Oscar Wilde
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However the truth is with him and you, it sounds like you at least need to talk to him. Timmy & David are right about that it may only mean he CAN'T see you not that he WONT see you.
Also, something about the timing of it, right after an accident makes me kinda cautious as well. I don't want to alarm you, but people say and do funny things after an accident. They aren't always thinking clearly, even if they weren't hurt. Best advice I can give is to give a little time and tell him you want to talk when he's ready.
And yes 46 is a mess. I hope he wasn't hurt in that wreck.
Keep the faith, Andy. This might be a big bump in the road, but I feel that there's smooth riding ahead.
It's not the wolf you see you should fear, but all the ones he howls with. Don't be afraid of the song, but don't piss off the choir.
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smith
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Registered: January 1970
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Did you get to talk to him? I'm thinking he was upset from the crash and it was more "I can't see you anymore" meaning he has no one way to get there and needed reassurance that it wouldn't matter, that you'd still care. Let us know, K?
Love you sweetie ~ smith
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Hey you guys. I am sorry I have been complaining a shit load recently but life has been pretty crappy. So starting on a slightly diffrnet note then getting back to Steve:
Well that math QUIZ that I THOUHGHT I aced. Well guess what I fuck failed. Actually I had a 66 which is a D but by all current standards I failed then test. WTF I am so damn mad. SO now that bitch of a teacher hates me and she has a way to back her outlandish claim that I am a. rude b. arrogant and c. don't pay attention and d. my faulure is becuase I don't take notes. I fuckin hate her.
So that just made me damn day... I can't believe I failed my dads gonna be pissed. IT wasn't that I didn't know what I was doing it was jsut I got confused and couldnt multiply the stuff even though I set it up right. Ug I hate it.
Then today I had gym last period and I was sittin on a bench in the lockerroom staring at the pipes that run along the cieling and these dumb guys start calling me a faggot and saying that I was staring at his ass. I wasn't even looking at them they are such jerks. Anyway he barely even has an ass to speak of and I definitly wouldn't ahve been looking at him! Jeez. But then everybody in the locker room was making fun of me. I was so pissed.
Then I get home and have an email form Steve waiting for me. saying that in fact his car is most definitly totalled he has wrecked both the front and back ends and its not aligned right now (not a car person doenst understand...) Then he said he doesn't really care if we say we are together or not anymore since he doesn't think I will be seeing him for a long itme one way or anyother.
I am so mad and now need to get changed to go to work and teach arts and crafts... I hope life gets better it has been pretty shitty so far. See yas
Andy
Why are you wearing that stupid man suit?
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I hope tomorrow gets better. Don't pay any attention to those guys in the locker room. When someone said things like that to me my usual reply was "Would you please stop hitting on me!" That seemed to make them even madder but they rarely ever did anything about it.
:-/
Like I said, hope tomorrow is a better day,
Kevin
"Be excellent to each other, and, party on dudes"!
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smith
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Registered: January 1970
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You did not fcuk up. Upper math can be really hard and it's easy to get confused with all the steps. A 66 means you got more right than wrong. If your teacher thinks any of those things, she doesn't know you {{{hugs}}}
As for the dumba$$es in the locker room, I'm sorry. He's prolly one of those totally gross monkey butts you're always talking about, did something dumb at school and had to take it out on someone. I wish you had gone to school with me. You could have just gotten behind me {{{hugs}}}
Steve is feeling real sorry for himself right now. Let it all simmer down and then he'll call. He prolly got in bunches of trouble over the wreck and you kinda got some of the runoff {{{hugs}}}
I know days like this are crap but you have your dancing and your kids you help. Think of something good that happened even if it's just me giving you a HUGE {{{HUG}}}.
Love you sweetie ~ smith
:-*
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It's their loss. If they knew what a great (and slightly goofy  ) guy you are, they wouldn't be mean to you in gym class.
Too bad about the maths test, I know all about failing those, though I never had the misfortune of first thinking I aced it and then finding out otherwise. That sucks too!
I wish I could do something to help, guess I have to settle with reminding you you're a great guy, and that we guys here care about you.
Take care. Talk to Steve please. He's probably just upset about the accident and not thinking straight yet. If Mohammed can't come to the mountain any more...?
Take care, alright?
We care!
Hugs:
-L
"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."
-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13783
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He probably wished you were staring at his ass. But that's his loss.
You know, I have no idea what I'm gonna say here. Only, heck, you're doing greta. I'm proud of you.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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Andy, I am so sorry for your bad week. I would have replied to your post earlier, but I haven't been home hardly at all this week.
You have been hit from both sides and top and bottom, too !!!! I know it isn't fair, but sometimes life does that to us.
I know I don't know you real well yet, but after our chat the other evening I find you to be such an incredible dude...
Just keep your head up. Keep looking up, and rely on the fact that you are an incredible guy, and things just have to get better..
I am giving you HUGE (((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))) so you have a place to cuddle and be safe...
BamBam
Celebrate your life... embrace your love... Become intimate with your place in forever !!!
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Free pass good for as many cuddles on my lap as you need, whenever you need them.
Thinking of you, little buddy. Hang in there!
"Always forgive your enemies...nothing annoys them quite so much." Oscar Wilde
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accident is confuzzled 
Re: accident is confuzzled 
thinking about you, Andy 
Really sorry to hear about your bad day.... 
