A Place of Safety
I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love.
Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving!
We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
















You are here: Home > Forum > A Place of Safety > General Talk > Today was a good day...
icon6.gif Today was a good day...  [message #3128] Sat, 15 June 2002 20:17 Go to next message
lenny is currently offline  lenny

On fire!
Location: Far Away
Registered: March 2002
Messages: 1755




Had my day off from the gym today. It was crappy weather too, so I went to the swimming arena to get me a bath and some warmth. Turned out to be a Really Good Thing.

At one point I had two guys almost competing over my attention, which was kind of cool/weird. And no Tim, I didn't go home with either of them, LOL... Neither of them were really my type, so no worries! Smile It seems my hours at the gym really are paying off. I am definitely getting noticed, yum!


Best thing of all though, by blind luck it happened that I ran into Asian Dreamboy as I was about to leave! Ooohhh...


We had a REALLY nice, long conversation about all sorts of stuff. I sometimes think he's a bit uncomfortable when we see each other at my regular gym, but that's just me being silly. He ISN'T. It was really relaxing, talking to him. He's so open and friendly and nice and easy to talk to, I really wish I could have him. Sad He's ssoo nice! (And cute too.)

He's 27 years old (which makes my guess of around 25 fairly accurate), and from China originally. I'll ask where next time we meet, it's a REALLY big country after all.

I told him some stuff I've carried inside myself for a while now, things I've wanted to say. Not ALL of it for sure, but that I did not tell I hinted at, and he didn't mind. Like I said, very open person, easy to talk to. Nice, pleasant... Cute. Engaged. Sad


And, Tim was good to me and put up another part of "The First Son" the other day (Thanks!), just in case someone here didn't notice and is interested... (Shameless plug, sorry! Smile)


-Lenny



"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."

-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
Re: Today was a good day...  [message #3129 is a reply to message #3128] Sun, 16 June 2002 01:25 Go to previous messageGo to next message
david in hong kong is currently offline  david in hong kong

On fire!
Location: American working in Thail...
Registered: February 2002
Messages: 1101




Hey, Lennie! Very glad to hear that you're having good days like this one now. Plus keeping up writing your story. (Yay!).

And there I was the other day wondering about that cute asian guy...cool! He's engaged? Hmmm... Maybe that's just for conservative social conventions...(thinking positively for ya, there).

As for me, I continue to have nightmare headaches due to work problems, staff politics, budget deficits, and such. They keep me with dead low energy lots of the time when I'm not at work, so I sometimes don't post or read the MB as regularly as I'd like.

Plus I was going to be with my partner Man in Thailand next week (see our pic now on the "Irregulars" page, thanks to Tim) but I have had to postpone that due to the work stuff. Major bummer, as Man just started University (at age 32, going weekends, which we are very proud of) and I wanted to go to some of the opening ceremonies.

I'm trying to have good days, too, anyhow, and not be negative, tho. Friday night I went to the High School graduation of the son of very good friends of mine here. It was very interesting to see all the eye candy there. Wow. 180 graduating, 18 year olds for days, as they say...



"Always forgive your enemies...nothing annoys them quite so much." Oscar Wilde
icon7.gif It is good to have good days, isn't it.  [message #3131 is a reply to message #3128] Sun, 16 June 2002 05:19 Go to previous messageGo to next message
e is currently offline  e

On fire!
Location: currently So Cal
Registered: May 2002
Messages: 1179



I had one myself, though I really didn't do much. Just watched baseball (my two favorite teams both lost), read stories, and did a tiny little bit of writing. Pretty relaxing.

One of the stories I read was First Son, the first three chapters. Excellent work. I really enjoyed it. Don't feel bad about the 'shameless plug' I devoted a whole thread to mine.

Think good thoughts,
e
icon14.gif You're right about that, e!  [message #3136 is a reply to message #3131] Sun, 16 June 2002 10:38 Go to previous messageGo to next message
lenny is currently offline  lenny

On fire!
Location: Far Away
Registered: March 2002
Messages: 1755




Both of your favorite teams lost and you still managed to have a good day? For some people that would have been enough to ruin a whole WEEK! Wink

Hee hee. Well anyway, it's nice to take a day off from everything and just do whatever that comes to mind - like, nothing at all even.

And David, sorry to hear about your headache-inducing problems you have to contend with... And especially, missing out on your planned time with Man. Sad

Well, at least you're free from the pneumonia! Smile


-Lenny



"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."

-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
icon7.gif Baseball, the love of the game.  [message #3148 is a reply to message #3136] Mon, 17 June 2002 04:04 Go to previous messageGo to next message
e is currently offline  e

On fire!
Location: currently So Cal
Registered: May 2002
Messages: 1179



Yeah, both my teams lost, but I enjoyed it anyways. What can I say? I just enjoy the game of baseball. Even if I don't like either team, I can sit down and watch a game and have fun.

Think good thoughts,
e
icon14.gif The love of baseball  [message #3155 is a reply to message #3148] Tue, 18 June 2002 01:12 Go to previous messageGo to next message
charlie is currently offline  charlie

Really getting into it
Location: San Antonio, TX
Registered: February 2002
Messages: 445




Thanks, e. I was beginning to wonder if I was the only person in the world who could watch a baseball game, no matter who was playing, and get great enjoyment from it. One of my favorite memories is taking my kids to the AA team here and explaining the differnet plays, and why that fielder moved the way he did without a ball being hit, and why the manager picked the relieving pitcher he did, and so on. The possiblitites in strategy are endless. Woohoo. Going to see a Mariners game in two weeks.
icon14.gif Re: The love of baseball  [message #3158 is a reply to message #3155] Tue, 18 June 2002 02:06 Go to previous messageGo to next message
e is currently offline  e

On fire!
Location: currently So Cal
Registered: May 2002
Messages: 1179



Well, I guess I can forgive you for being a Mariners fan, or is it that you watch them just because you've GOT to see a ballgame? I think it's a prerequisite that you must love the game if you are going to grow up to be an Indian's fan and especially if you are also an Angel's fan such as myself. I taught my wife to love the game as well. We go to see our local minor league team on a regular basis and visit Anaheim whenever the Indians are in town. I was surprised at how quickly she was able to pick up on the rules and some of the strategies. Just one more reason to love that woman. Now if I could just get her to stop counting the number of beers I drink...

Think good thoughts,
e
icon6.gif You'rs NOT a Mariners fan???  [message #3188 is a reply to message #3158] Thu, 20 June 2002 00:39 Go to previous messageGo to next message
charlie is currently offline  charlie

Really getting into it
Location: San Antonio, TX
Registered: February 2002
Messages: 445




Actually, my teams are the Giants and A's. Giants were the first major league team I saw live as a kid, and growing up in Monterey CA, just south of the Bay Area, kinda slanted me I think. Oh, also a big Orioles fan. Saw Cal Ripken's first major league game at Memorial Stadium. Introduced by his Dad.

Nothing beats going to a live baseball game, no matter who is playing. But I WILL root for the Mariners when we go to the game (unless they are playing Oakland or Baltimore, of course).

Usually don't drink beer at the games, makes me miss too much when I have to recycle, hehe.


Hugs, Charlie
icon6.gif Giants are cool  [message #3189 is a reply to message #3188] Thu, 20 June 2002 02:28 Go to previous messageGo to next message
e is currently offline  e

On fire!
Location: currently So Cal
Registered: May 2002
Messages: 1179



and the As are ok, I suppose. Aside from the Tribe, the Orioles were one of my favorite teams when I was a kid. Used to head to Cleveland every time the Birds came to town, especially if Palmer was pitching. In fact, it was Gene Autry's tendency to collect some of my favorite ex-Orioles that lead me to be an Angel's fan even before I moved to LA.

And yeah, it's never a very good idea to miss when you are in the recycle room. hehehe

Think good thoughts,
e
I know an 8 foot tall elf. Does he count?  [message #3193 is a reply to message #3189] Thu, 20 June 2002 09:31 Go to previous messageGo to next message
tim is currently offline  tim

Really getting into it
Location: UK, West of London in Ber...
Registered: February 2002
Messages: 842



No Message Body
Re: I know an 8 foot tall elf. Does he count?  [message #3194 is a reply to message #3193] Thu, 20 June 2002 10:18 Go to previous messageGo to next message
ron is currently offline  ron

Really getting into it
Location: Bridgeport, Connecticut U...
Registered: January 2003
Messages: 478




I think we Americans are alienating our non-American comrades. Perhaps to get even, they can start a thread about non-American football (be it soccer, or rugby, or whatever); in the meantime, how about a true story which points up how difficult it really is to explain the game of baseball to somebody who knows absolutely nothing about it.

The French conductor Charles Munch started his career as an orchestral violinist; but even after he became a conductor, he still wanted to feel as if he were still "one of the boys" with the members of the orchestra. Munch was the Music Director of the Boston Symphony Orchestra from 1949-1962. During baseball season, he would always hear the players talking baseball (especially the Red Sox, of course!) before and after concerts. He always felt sort of left out when that happened; at at a post-concert supper one summer night, he asked if somebody could explain the game of baseball to him. There were three volunteers (one of whom was Leonard Bernstein); and for about the next half-hour, they tried to explain baseball to him (in French!). At one point, one of them said, "Le pitcher jete le ball, et vous le frappe et run like hell a first base." Naturally, this only served to confuse Munch more and more. Finally, they gave up, since none of them had the vocabulary necessary to properly explain a squeeze play in French.

A true story!



We do not remember days...we remember moments.

Cesare Pavese
icon12.gif So it's all about baseball now is it? How did this happen?!  [message #3195 is a reply to message #3193] Thu, 20 June 2002 10:18 Go to previous messageGo to next message
lenny is currently offline  lenny

On fire!
Location: Far Away
Registered: March 2002
Messages: 1755



No Message Body



"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."

-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
icon12.gif There was the mistake  [message #3200 is a reply to message #3194] Thu, 20 June 2002 13:54 Go to previous messageGo to next message
e is currently offline  e

On fire!
Location: currently So Cal
Registered: May 2002
Messages: 1179



A 'squeeze play' should never be explained in French! And since his was a musician, they probably should have started with 'chin music' and gone 'around the horn' from there.

Think good thoughts,
e
Can't think of a thing that makes a day better!  [message #3202 is a reply to message #3195] Thu, 20 June 2002 14:00 Go to previous messageGo to next message
e is currently offline  e

On fire!
Location: currently So Cal
Registered: May 2002
Messages: 1179



And we were talking about good days, weren't we?

Think good thoughts,
e
Re: There was the mistake  [message #3203 is a reply to message #3200] Thu, 20 June 2002 15:19 Go to previous messageGo to next message
tim is currently offline  tim

Really getting into it
Location: UK, West of London in Ber...
Registered: February 2002
Messages: 842



isn't a squeeze play a piano accordion? Ideal to explain in French! Ghastly instrument used much by that nation!
icon13.gif I'm a little sad now!  [message #3205 is a reply to message #3128] Thu, 20 June 2002 17:41 Go to previous messageGo to next message
lenny is currently offline  lenny

On fire!
Location: Far Away
Registered: March 2002
Messages: 1755




I was forced to delete most of my archived responses to keep my hotmail account up and running. Sad

Soon I will have to kill all of my saved replies, and then I'll have to start deleting the mails people have sent me... That's sad.

It's supposed to be possible to export hotmail stuff to outlook express, but I could not get that to work. I was down to less than 200k free space and a single klez email virus would make the account overflow so I had to act immediately.

That sucks!


-Lenny



"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."

-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
Re: I'm a little sad now!  [message #3208 is a reply to message #3205] Thu, 20 June 2002 20:28 Go to previous messageGo to next message
david in hong kong is currently offline  david in hong kong

On fire!
Location: American working in Thail...
Registered: February 2002
Messages: 1101




Lenny,

If you don't want to, or can't afford a bigger hotmail "mailbox' like you mentioned in a recent email to me, simply start a second hotmail account and start using it as well. That way you'd have more free space. I have more than one yahoo account, and use them for different things!

Hi, by the way! hehehe



"Always forgive your enemies...nothing annoys them quite so much." Oscar Wilde
icon14.gif Tim helped me, yay!  [message #3211 is a reply to message #3208] Thu, 20 June 2002 22:05 Go to previous messageGo to next message
lenny is currently offline  lenny

On fire!
Location: Far Away
Registered: March 2002
Messages: 1755




THANKS TIM!!!

I now got my hotmail account set up to work with Outlook Express, and IT WORKS...! I keep the most important mails in the hotmail account for safe-keeping and dump over everything else to my own computer.

Gotta remember to archive it all when it's re-install time or they'll all go down the bit-bucket and that would suck.

Buying a second harddrive soon (120GB unit) so that should make things easier. I'll move over the email database to the new harddrive so it's separate from the one with my windows installation.


And, Hi to you too of course! Smile

-Lenny



"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."

-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
icon7.gif Sorry, Lenny, but what e said is true!  [message #3215 is a reply to message #3195] Fri, 21 June 2002 00:48 Go to previous messageGo to next message
charlie is currently offline  charlie

Really getting into it
Location: San Antonio, TX
Registered: February 2002
Messages: 445




No Message Body
icon12.gif This is precisely why  [message #3219 is a reply to message #3203] Fri, 21 June 2002 01:57 Go to previous message
e is currently offline  e

On fire!
Location: currently So Cal
Registered: May 2002
Messages: 1179



baseball should not be discussed in French.

Think good thoughts,
e
Previous Topic: Interesting stuff...
Next Topic: OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG
Goto Forum: