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 conclusion: Listen to yourself!
 
 Here are some questions that will hopefully help you get to know yourselves a bit better.
 Answer them as truthfully as you can, even if you choose not to share your answers here do answer them for yourselves...
 
 *Describe your appearance in one word*
 *Describe yourself in one word*
 *Describe yourself in two words*
 *What is your purpose in life put in three words or less*
 
 Now that you have, hopefully
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 #3 ridgly independent
 #4 to help others
 
 peace
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				| Location: UK, in Devon Registered: February 2003
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 |  | #1:  fat #2:  empathic
 #3:  trying harder
 #4:  to help
 
 Well I have NO idea how appearance links with the others.
 
 
 Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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		|  | This is not the first forum I post my corner in, and although I usually don't do this, this time I'd like to answer if that is ok with you. 
 I noticed that many of the people who answer these threads follow a somewhat similar pattern...
 You are all great people, loving, caring and thoughtful. You take great pleasure in helping others, yet you are all overly analytical and overly critical of yourselves!
 
 BTW Ash, you can never be objective whilst talking about yourself. So answer is not accepted, please try again...
  
 Hugs all,
 Gil
 
 
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 APPEARANCE ~
 Choose one:  HANDSOME, DEBONAIR, CUTE, STYLISH, WAY AWESOME
 
 YOU IN ONE WORD ~
 Choose one: CARING, LOVING, KIND, THOUGHTFUL, TENDER
 
 YOU IN TWO WORDS:
 Choose 2: GENTLE, GOODHEARTED, GENEROUS, WARM, HELPFUL
 
 YOUR PURPOSE IN LIFE ~
 You just have to take this one: TO HELP OTHERS
 
 {{{HUG}}}
 smith  ~~~oh, and this is me
  
 Appearance: smith
 Me in 1 word: smiling
 Me in 2 words: introspective & questioning
 Purpose in Life: open a door
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		|  | Appearance.... Plain 
 Me in One Word..... Bewildered
 
 Me in Two Words.....Not Sure
 
 My Purpose in life.... Dunno Yet but I think I will find out
  
 
 These are all I could think of. I cant see too far into the future. I just do what I do and go from Day to Day. Best I can do and I try harder every day.
 
 
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 3. Dependable and clever.
 4. Live quietly and happily.
 
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