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icon9.gif Whats Wrong?  [message #5640] Sun, 03 November 2002 07:10 Go to next message
ashley is currently offline  ashley

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Would someone like to tell ME why I got an Email from Warren saying he was leaving? Why Marc is so angry that he had to post here to tell people so? Why Steve is upset over the board disintergrating?

I must be a klutz because I cant see what has happened here that would warrant this kind of behaviour. I thought you guys were all OLDER Adults? I thought you all said that you were here to help? Is it only on YOUR terms??

I have an ongoing difference of opinion with Michael about what a FREINDSHIP is. He believes that a friend has to fill a certain criteria, I dont. We are all different and therefore have different outlooks and most of us believe we are RIGHT most of the time but I dont think we should HAVE expectations of what sort of conduct is acceptable or isnt between friends. I dont mean MORALLY but friendship wise.

If one hurts another, oft it is from a misunderstanding and a lot of us find dealing with reality a lil hard sometimes but it doesnt mean that I or anyone else here has the RIGHT answer for everyones ills. So, please lose the hard feelings and just let the whole thing drop. It is pride that is damaged NOT physical body.

A hug from me to make everyone smile PLEASE.. <---00---> Smile



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Ashi *hugs*  [message #5641 is a reply to message #5640] Sun, 03 November 2002 07:20 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Michael Simon is currently offline  Michael Simon

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on a plac e liek this you always find an abundance of character with different opinions. These opinions upset people sometimes. As we all have different sets of values ( old discussion ) we divergate on certain points and convergate on others. So sometimes absence helps for a lil while, or patience. *hugs you all!
icon9.gif Already know  [message #5644 is a reply to message #5640] Sun, 03 November 2002 09:41 Go to previous messageGo to next message
ashley is currently offline  ashley

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I have answered my own question tonight. So, I spose you guys will go on with whatever it is that you have found that made ya all so mad. All I can say is, enjoy guys.



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Re: Already know  [message #5651 is a reply to message #5644] Sun, 03 November 2002 13:04 Go to previous messageGo to next message
tim...of usa is currently offline  tim...of usa

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for what its worht ash,



HUGE BIG OLD HUG FOR YOU

peace
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Re: Whats Wrong?  [message #5652 is a reply to message #5640] Sun, 03 November 2002 13:06 Go to previous message
rick is currently offline  rick

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I see once again the friendship question is up in the air again ..Friends don't have to agree all the time , they will have difference ideas and sometimes they will go their difference ways .There are all types of friends and friendships out there . There are friends that you may never see or meet and then there are friends that are always by your side no matter what ..

I believe that friendship is what you make of it , not what some else tell you what it should be .

From the Dictionary .. FRIEND --- person known and like by another .

From the Dictionary .. Friendship --- helpful , favorable .

I guess what I am trying to say is if you are happy with that person as a friend or with the friendship then that is all that matter .. not what someone else might think .. I had have friends that no one like them before but they were some of the best friendships I had .
Well I guess this is all ..I said my 2 cents worth ..

Thanks
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