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icon7.gif I'm Back AGAIN!  [message #5900] Thu, 14 November 2002 14:49 Go to next message
AdamAnt is currently offline  AdamAnt

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Hey guys,
Its been months since I last posted here, but rest assure I did come through and check up on it a number of times. I hope ya'll remember me =).

Life has been hectic for me recently, I just finished my school life last week, with all exams finished.

Lots has happened, and I have changed a lot, I now have earings (NOOO) and I some pathetic attempts of sideburns(puberty is sitll doing its wonders with me). I have also grown taller and now tower above everyone more than i used to WOOOHOOO.6ft 2 and still counting.

Talk to you all soon

Adam (the australian god, hehe)
adam_ant_85@hotmail.com
icon7.gif Hey Adam! Great to see you again!  [message #5901 is a reply to message #5900] Thu, 14 November 2002 15:47 Go to previous messageGo to next message
lenny is currently offline  lenny

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Missed ya!

Done a bit of skullduggery to see where you've been... Smile Just to check if you've still been around and stuff or maybe gone off the net for a while. Found ya, but I didn't mail, just wanted to check if you were okay and you seemed to.

How are you doin, man? Did you ever decide to start seeing Josh seriously btw? Smile


-L!



"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."

-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
icon7.gif Welcome Back !  [message #5903 is a reply to message #5900] Thu, 14 November 2002 16:39 Go to previous messageGo to next message
gil is currently offline  gil

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We did miss you around here, what have you been up to?

Do tell, do tell Smile

Gil



Searching for the light at the end of the bed...
Adam vs. The World  [message #5931 is a reply to message #5900] Fri, 15 November 2002 14:45 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Darren is currently offline  Darren

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Hi mate,

Great to hear from you again. Your school is finished, WOW!!! Your life is ahead of you know, let us know what your plans are.

Keep growing. I am 6'5", so you still have 3" to catch me:)

Cheers,

Darren
icon7.gif Good to hear from you!  [message #5941 is a reply to message #5900] Fri, 15 November 2002 20:09 Go to previous messageGo to next message
trevor is currently offline  trevor

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Thanks for stopping by and the quick update. Hey, you're bigger than me. Err . . .
josh  [message #5964 is a reply to message #5941] Sat, 16 November 2002 15:35 Go to previous messageGo to next message
AdamAnt is currently offline  AdamAnt

Toe is in the water

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Lenny,
I was last "WITH" josh 3 months ago. Since that night, We havnt spoken at all.
I hear he is out with his old crew, doing drugs again.
I am not going to waste my time with a drug user. I already told him I hate that shit.

I got my eyes set on someone WAY better now, I will fill you all in on the situation later on. At the moment I am really tired. BED TIME.
icon3.gif Waste your time?  [message #5969 is a reply to message #5964] Sat, 16 November 2002 18:09 Go to previous messageGo to next message
lenny is currently offline  lenny

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Adam,

When an old friend is caught in shit like drugs, that is when they need friends to "waste time" with them the most. He needs your help, though he may not know it or maybe not even want it.

Help your friend please, for both your sakes! He needs you.


-Lenny



"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."

-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
Re: Waste your time?  [message #5988 is a reply to message #5969] Sun, 17 November 2002 16:12 Go to previous messageGo to next message
AdamAnt is currently offline  AdamAnt

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I am sick of the shit, he doesnt listen. and makes no attempt to keep in contact when he is the one who said he wanted to get serious. Fuck that.
he can go and do all the drugs he wants, because he is an idiot. He works in a high rise building fixing the elevators as an apprentive. He goes to work on drugs and endangers the lifes of the people in the building.

that is only on of the small stupid things he does without consideration.
Re: Waste your time?  [message #5996 is a reply to message #5988] Sun, 17 November 2002 19:40 Go to previous messageGo to next message
rick is currently offline  rick

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Hi ..

This is just my thoughts on this ..


But If he is going to work on drugs and endangering other people lives . Then maybe its time you told someone about it that could help him . And also let him know that you are still his friend and that you will be there for him . But in the end its up to you what you do and what you can live with ..
Josh  [message #5999 is a reply to message #5988] Sun, 17 November 2002 19:49 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Darren is currently offline  Darren

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You seamed to have lost respect for the guy, so it may be difficult to be with him anyway. If you feel that he is in need of (and willing to accept) help, than maybe you should consider it as a friend. Until that happens, move on and find Mr. or Mrs. "Right".

Going to work high is bad though and I would hope that his supervisor would pick up on that very quickly. You cannot hide this kind of thing that well.

Cheers,

Darren
OH MY GOD !  [message #6030 is a reply to message #5999] Mon, 18 November 2002 05:54 Go to previous messageGo to next message
AdamAnt is currently offline  AdamAnt

Toe is in the water

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I posted my last reponse to this last night when I went to bed. When I woke up this morning I had a text message on my fone and it was from josh.
It read.

"hey dude whats been happening i have quit pot dude and got a new car give me a ring we need to catch up"

do you have any idead how much that spun me out, is josh in here reading my posts ?
it is to much of a coincidence

I rang him this afternoon and we spoke quickly, but he was caught up at work and I could hardly hear him because of the background noise.
What do you guys think ? he said he has been clean for 2 weeks now and still going strong !
Re: OH MY GOD !  [message #6032 is a reply to message #6030] Mon, 18 November 2002 07:00 Go to previous messageGo to next message
trevor is currently offline  trevor

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It never hurts to support a friend, especially when they are doing "the right thing" especially when it's not "the easy thing." If everything works out so your relationship deepens, that's great, too.
icon7.gif Adam you fool! GO FOR IT MAN!!!  [message #6037 is a reply to message #6030] Mon, 18 November 2002 11:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
lenny is currently offline  lenny

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Do you even NEED to ask us? Very Happy

Be with your friend! Be A friend, be more than friend if you both wants to. Help him stay clean ("No more XYZ for you mister if you keep smokin weed!"). Hehe!

That's great news!

-L



"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."

-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
friday  [message #6043 is a reply to message #6037] Mon, 18 November 2002 14:04 Go to previous messageGo to next message
AdamAnt is currently offline  AdamAnt

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I am going to go to his house and stay over friday night....
only because lenny said so...hehehe
icon6.gif friday (wink, wink, nudge, nudge...)  [message #6058 is a reply to message #6043] Mon, 18 November 2002 20:08 Go to previous message
Darren is currently offline  Darren

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Cool!

Be sure to have fun and you may want to ask him why he decided to contact you when he did. Otherwise, be safe and make us jealous.

Hugs,

Darren
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