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icon7.gif Drew, Tom,  [message #6681] Tue, 17 December 2002 02:18 Go to next message
Steve is currently offline  Steve

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I am very, very happy for both of you.
I wish I had had parents like yours, (-( but life isn't the same for everyone...
It's a different world compared to when we were their age....  [message #6685 is a reply to message #6681] Tue, 17 December 2002 12:11 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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Some things have changed.

Just look at the network of information and support now available.



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
Re: It's a different world compared to when we were their age....  [message #6686 is a reply to message #6685] Tue, 17 December 2002 12:33 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Some things have not changed, though. And through this we must never forget that "coming out" is not always easy, and does not always produce a comfortable result.

When you and I were thir age, marc, Gay Lib and Gay Pride was in its infancy, and yet very necessary. "Out and Proud" was viewed by many as essential. It was a war. One I chose to be a conscientious objector in out of self imposed necessity.

Some of us have family or religious or neighbourhood issues which prevent us from acting. Oddly the wealth of infomration available can ever hurt one who cannto act, because he feels he "ought" to act.

We have had good results here, so far. There have been bad results elsewhere. And we have examples here of people who cannto under any circumstances come out (Cruel religions, for example)



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Again I say if you arent safe where you are.... Move.....  [message #6690 is a reply to message #6686] Tue, 17 December 2002 13:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
icon4.gif Re: Again I say if you arent safe where you are.... Move.....  [message #6693 is a reply to message #6690] Tue, 17 December 2002 15:43 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Marc, just think a moment about what you are saying! Do you really expect a youngster still in school to move somewhere else, out of their parents' home?

Come back into the real world. What's good for some is not necessarily good for all.
No.... I am not saying that at all......  [message #6700 is a reply to message #6693] Tue, 17 December 2002 20:55 Go to previous message
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I would never recomend a teen being on his own...

But people age.... and when they do eventually they get old enough to make their own decisions.....



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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