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ok sit down folks ...your not going to believe this one  [message #6890] Sun, 29 December 2002 16:50 Go to next message
tim...of usa is currently offline  tim...of usa

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ok to make a really long story short i have a date for new years. WOOHOO
i have been chatting and hanging out with this guy, ED, for months and last night we were again chatting and i asked if he had any plans for new years eve, he says yup sure do. i was not at all ready for what he said next...my plans are to spend the evening with you meaning me. WOOHOO
i was al ready for him to say well i am going to be hanging out with frineds or i am going to a party or some thing, he actually was waiting for me to ask me.
the thing baout ED is we have chatted about ever thing...alot about me and a lot about him and i have a HUGE CRUSH on him, and after talking last night (till 3 am) he feels the same about me...which is really scary for me cause i am always the guy that likes some one ans end of hearing those words "we can still be friends". thinbgs with ed are really different and it takes me back to a time like 17 18 years ago when i meet a guy that i ended up dating for 6 years....so i am a little scared .

ok now what do i wear and how should i fix my hair...oh yes i shave my head so thats not a problem.....lol

so wish me luck and keep good thoughts coming my way cause i am going to need em. i feel like a little kid with my first crush all over again, and it feels good.

peace
tim...(with a new years date) of USA
Be yourself  [message #6891 is a reply to message #6890] Sun, 29 December 2002 17:16 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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It's you he likes. Not a fake person, but you. So be you.



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Of course I believe  [message #6892 is a reply to message #6890] Sun, 29 December 2002 17:34 Go to previous messageGo to next message
e is currently offline  e

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Who wouldn't want to go out with a smart, witty, and fun guy like yourself? Don't spend the evening worrying about a relationship or what happens next. Just go out and have a good time. The rest will take care of itself. Enjoy!

Think good thoughts,
e
icon14.gif Hugs Timmer! Good luck with your date, and remember...  [message #6894 is a reply to message #6890] Sun, 29 December 2002 18:10 Go to previous messageGo to next message
lenny is currently offline  lenny

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...To chat with me too some day, okay? Smile

Wow, this is so cool. I'm really happy for you. This is great to hear!

More hugs for you!


-L



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direct my sail."

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icon7.gif I believe  [message #6897 is a reply to message #6890] Sun, 29 December 2002 20:17 Go to previous messageGo to next message
trevor is currently offline  trevor

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Can't think of a reason somebody wouldn't like you. Like the other guys said, just be yourself and take time to get to know each other better and just get comfortable and relax. Good luck!
I'm very happy for you  [message #6899 is a reply to message #6890] Sun, 29 December 2002 23:02 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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What a great way to start the new year (wish I'd thought of it Smile)
I hope it goes just as you imagin and want it too.

Hugs,
Gil



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icon14.gif Terrific News !!  [message #6902 is a reply to message #6890] Mon, 30 December 2002 00:24 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Wheeeeeee!!

Couldn't happen to a sweeter guy! This is exciting.....We get to get you all ready for the big date.....Take a deep breath and just be yourself.......he couldn't ask for anything better than that.

{{{{Hugs}}}}
smith
ok a few days to go.....  [message #6904 is a reply to message #6890] Mon, 30 December 2002 03:44 Go to previous messageGo to next message
tim...of usa is currently offline  tim...of usa

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and i have butterflys the size of the state of texas. funny i feel like i am 16 all over.
ED and i were chatting today and my hands were all sweaty and i miss speeled like every other word....god do i feel silly.

silly and scared to death, i really like him and he really likes me and both of us want tuesday night to be perfect, he is a vegitarian (sp) and i am cooking dinner for the two of us and then its going to be champain on the roof of my building at midnight to watch the fire works. i told him to wear a warm coat cause its cold up there in the winter and he says....nah you'll have to hold me and keep me warm, i almost melted when i read that but its scary for me also, if that makes any sense.

ok off i go to try, right , and get some sleep.
i'll keep you all posted on the butterfly reports.

peace
tim...of USA
icon14.gif Ohh, that's so nice and cute to hear...  [message #6908 is a reply to message #6904] Mon, 30 December 2002 13:09 Go to previous messageGo to next message
lenny is currently offline  lenny

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You really deserve this, it's really sweet to hear he wants you to hold him... Wow! Fantastic!

Have fun, and be reeally good to him, I know you can... And impress the hell out of him with your cooking too! Smile


-L



"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."

-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
Re: ok a few days to go.....  [message #6911 is a reply to message #6904] Tue, 31 December 2002 00:16 Go to previous message
tim...of usa is currently offline  tim...of usa

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went shopping for wine and cheese tonight....my god only 24 hours left....what to do what to do??????

well as you may tell i am as giddy as a school girl the night befor prom, and in some ways scared to death. i really like ED and i dont want anything to go wrong at all...i worry to much i guess...sigh

ok back to house cleaning and such

peace
tim..of USA
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