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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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If you see something is wrong somewhere, and you have a hope of influencing it even though you risk a friendship, what do you do?
All thoughts gratefully received
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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stephen
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Toe is in the water |
Location: UK
Registered: December 2002
Messages: 31
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For what it's worth, I would suggest that it would depend on what it is you have seen that is wrong, how much of hope you have of influencing it and whether or not that friendship is worth risking.
Not much help, I know. Sorry.
Stephen
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On fire! |
Location: currently So Cal
Registered: May 2002
Messages: 1179
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But I suppose that it would depend upon whether I place more value on righting the wrong than I do on the friendship.
Think good thoughts,
e
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Timmy, from me to you, I would expect you to say something as a friend. If this is a strong friendship, then it will last through the tough times.
That's my 2 cents worth.
Brian
To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.
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tim...of usa
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Likes it here |
Location: buffalo, new york...USA
Registered: July 2002
Messages: 266
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ok i have not read the other replys yet so this may be redundant....
lets see, how close are you to this friend? and how strong is that friendship? and how wrong is this wrong...moral, ethical or leagally wrong? is the wrong that you see causeing another any pain or does it have the potencial to do some serouis damage to an other?
i have a few friends that i love unconditionally and if i see some thing that is not right i will call them on it and deal with the fall out as it comes...yes i have lost a few friends that way but if i helped them to grwo as a person in the process then i feel that it was worth it in the long run.
ok i'll shut up now...
peace
tim...of USA
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