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I see that so many people are here giving their hugs to you and also such wonderful words of courage and support. I dont know how you felt before, I dont KNOW what it is like to lose someone that close but, I am sure that I know what you are feeling right now. it WILL pass Stephen and you wont feel so low and like you are nothing and that you DONT matter.
YOU matter Stephen. You mattered to Robert(Scholar) and you matter to his parents. You matter to ppl here and you matter to me and most of all, you OWE it to yourself to continue on and do all the things ya can to make your life have meaning. Maybe some will read this and wonder what knowledge I could have that I impart this to you but, I do have some experience.
The Roos are going to stand guard around your Bed Stephen and they WONT allow anyone to hurt you nor yo get too close  hehe. They will be there from now until you are ready to send them packing ok?? They REALLY are gentle souls Mate and wont harm ya? Hugs Stephen from 10000 klms away.
People have a habit of changing your direction through life
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When you lose someone close to you, the thing you need most is strength. I know the pain you must feel as the very source of strength that you'd look to under normal circumstances is the very person you have lost. I hope now you will realise that there are other people willing to support you, individually we may not provide much support, but I hope that combined our little messages our heartfelt concern will lighten the burden and strengthen you so that you can manage to continue on in this dark hour.
You will still cry, you will still hurt, but I implore you to find someone to help ease your burden. I don't mean someone to replace Robert, because given the freshness of wound that suggestion would be as insane as it is impossible I simply mean a friend that you are able to cry on, to pour your soul out to, someone that will ease your pain. Try and work out the best way, short of death to ease your pain and look for a friend that will be able to fulfill your needs. Never give up hope, for it is hope that gives us a reason to live. In my belief you will see Robert again, but that doesn't mean you should follow him into the grave. It was his time, he had fulfilled his purpose on Earth, but there is still much for you to do. Perhaps there is a task you must complete without his aid and that is why he was taken from among us. Above all though, never blame yourself for his death. I know with death, especially of one so close there is a tendancy to blame oneself, but it was NOT your fault, there was nothing you could do to change it. Anyway, I hope my simple words provide some comfort.
PS. I can't send Big Red Roos because we don't have any down here in Tassie, though a cohert of Pademellons, Bennett's Wallabies and Eastern Greys will still be looking out for you.
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Well there not much more I can say to what you guys said ..
But do believe that God wasn't ready for you Stephen ..that he still got somethings here on earth for you to do ..and also I know that God and Robert are looking out for you ..
So you have to get better and go on with you life and being the caring person you are .. you are needed by alot of people ..
*hugs for you from a friend in Canada*
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