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Well, a little update.  [message #7269] Thu, 23 January 2003 17:50 Go to next message
brian! is currently offline  brian!

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I gave up on trying to find the time to talk with Aaron. I sent an email a little bit ago, and am now waiting to see what happens.

Was about the hardest thing I've ever done. I sat and looked at the send button forever before I actually did it.

I pretty much started out saying that I didn't want to do it this way, but it's been hard finding the time to talk.

Well, I guess I'll know soon what life if going to be like.

Brian



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You know....  [message #7271 is a reply to message #7269] Thu, 23 January 2003 21:50 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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From the message you showed me, I feel it will go well



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icon14.gif Timmy's right...  [message #7272 is a reply to message #7271] Thu, 23 January 2003 23:21 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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From what I saw, you wrote that e-mail perfectly. Extremely well put. I do hope everything goes well tonight. HUGS! Smile

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whatever is neglected slips away."
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icon5.gif Re:Well, Well, a little update.  [message #7285 is a reply to message #7269] Sat, 25 January 2003 16:20 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Don't know what to say.
Um, He came over Friday night, we were spose to be alone for about half an hour before Chuck got home. That happened. Chuck arrived home, and received a phone call, and he asked me and Aaron if he could go away for a while, which was fine by us, so he left us along for well, 3 hours.

I don't know if i screwed up in the email. Nothing was said at all, we just talked like we always do, and watched TV.

I got a phone call from Chuck asking me to pick him up, that's how he got home, on the way back he asked if anything was said. He was shocked that all we did was talked about the news, the new fire truck we're getting, etc.. But nothing about what i had expected, nor him.

So, really nothing to report. Sorry.

Brian



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Re: Re:Well, Well, a little update.  [message #7286 is a reply to message #7285] Sat, 25 January 2003 18:14 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Well, I don't know the details so I may be talking out my butt, in which case ignore me, please, but -

Are you sure he read it? If so and there was no adverse reaction, that could be a good thing.
Re: Re:Well, Well, a little update.  [message #7287 is a reply to message #7286] Sun, 26 January 2003 02:11 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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He read it, he called my roommate, and talked a little about some of it, but hasn't said a word to me about it yet. My roommate and I are trying to figure out if he understood what I was saying.

Brian



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icon7.gif Well, what did you SAY then?  [message #7288 is a reply to message #7287] Sun, 26 January 2003 02:37 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Re: Well, what did you SAY then?  [message #7295 is a reply to message #7288] Sun, 26 January 2003 18:44 Go to previous messageGo to next message
brian! is currently offline  brian!

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Chuck looked at my email to Aaron. He thinks it might be a misunderstanding, because it didn't actually tell him that I'm gay.

So, now I guess I'll have to bring it up, and make sure he understands what I want him to know.

Brian



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I have a picture you can send him.... It will leave NO doubt... none.  [message #7296 is a reply to message #7287] Sun, 26 January 2003 22:13 Go to previous message
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