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new insite in to ME  [message #7877] Wed, 19 February 2003 16:07 Go to next message
tim...of usa is currently offline  tim...of usa

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ok a lot of you know me via this cyber world and a few of you fine folks chat with me via AIM but its time i opened my self up and let you in on a bit more about myself.

a very big part of my life is BDSM and i am a master in that role and part of my life, well thats not exactly correct i am a masterly type person in all parts of my life and in all situations i am VERY dominate...with one tiny excpetion here.
i dont know why i naver brought this part of my life to the light of this MB but for some reason i did not, i do so now with no shame or fears at all.

yes i have a dungon equipted with some rather interesting "toys".
yes i am a bit of a sadist.
yes i am a controll freak.
yes i live for my slaves/boys and i care for them to the point i'd protect them with my very life if i waa called to do so.

you may have seen my AIM screen name Freaky Timmer well in most circles i am considered a freak i also have a few other screen names mastertimmer101 is the one i use to chat about and with others that are a part of this life path.

dont really know my point here but if you are interested or would like to comment or question myself about this please feel free, you have my permission.

peace
tim...of USA
Re: new insite in to ME  [message #7878 is a reply to message #7877] Wed, 19 February 2003 16:13 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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Interesting, isn't it, how a Master is actually dominated by a duty to a slave.

And that BDSM is actually not about inflicting pain, per se, but is an exercise in trust given and trust received. Though I do not discount the erotic nature of pain for those who enjoy it.

I think another point is that it is neither a "more manly" nor a "shameful" activity, provided consent is given, accepted and renewed.



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Re: new insite in to ME  [message #7887 is a reply to message #7878] Wed, 19 February 2003 17:13 Go to previous message
tim...of usa is currently offline  tim...of usa

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all very true and valid points, the trust go so deep its scary at times but intoxicating also

peace
tim...of USA
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