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I have noticed a slight trend in the posts where the author tells a little about themselves. It was noted somewhere below (I don't remember who) that more than a few of the posters here have special feeling for boys. What I have noticed is that most who have said so are now or have been happily married and have children of their own.
Is this a product of the era we grew up in? Was it internal or external pressure to conform to society's standards that every boy grows up and marrries and continues the family line?
For myself, because I did not communicate my feelings to my family (probably because I wouldn't admit them to myself) there was subtle pressure that I finally gave in to. Not saying that I did not love my wife when we married (and still love her very much to this day) but I now wonder if I married for all the 'right' reasons. Was it a subconscious need to suppress my love for boys? Or a desire to fill the nurturing need by having my own children? To clear the air, I love my three beyond words, but have never felt any sexual draw towards them like I have felt with others. And why is that? In my eyes, my children are beautiful and now that the oldest (16) has a steady I do feel jealosy that he is attracted to another (but that is a whole different question) so why do I not feel the same draw as I do to other boys? I realize they are sexual beings, and have had 'the talk' with both boys (the other is now 13) more than once, but the thought of incest (What an ugly word) has never crossed my mind.
Maybe this should be two different posts, one concerning the marriage line and the other dealing with incest, but I think that in a lot of ways, and particularly following this line of thought, they are relevant to each other.
In case you haven't noticed, I like stirring the pot, hehe.
Hugs to all, Charlie
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Possibly a Trend?
By: charlie on Mon, 21 January 2002 16:43 |
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Going to split this: MARRIAGE:
By: tim on Mon, 21 January 2002 17:36 |
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Re: MARRIAGE
By: mihangel on Mon, 21 January 2002 18:38 |
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Re: MARRIAGE
By: charlie on Mon, 21 January 2002 21:18 |
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Re: MARRIAGE
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Middle of the road
By: charlie on Tue, 22 January 2002 07:02 |
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Re: Middle of the road
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I look forward to hearing from you about those resources.
By: charlie on Tue, 22 January 2002 16:59 |
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Little Boxes
By: Guest on Tue, 22 January 2002 17:09 |
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Does Bisexuality equate to "Married and gay"?
By: tim on Tue, 22 January 2002 12:34 |
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Re: Does Bisexuality equate to "Married and gay?"
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I have got it! YESS! "Str8 Curious"
By: tim on Tue, 22 January 2002 13:48 |
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Erotic Feelings
By: Guest on Tue, 22 January 2002 17:19 |
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Re: Erotic Feelings
By: trevor on Sat, 02 February 2002 03:06 |
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Other Thread; INCEST
By: tim on Mon, 21 January 2002 17:46 |
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Maybe I run on a different voltage from you, Tim.
By: mihangel on Mon, 21 January 2002 18:22 |
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Re: Maybe I run on a different voltage from you, Tim.
By: charlie on Mon, 21 January 2002 21:01 |
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Re: Maybe I run on a different voltage from you, Tim.
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Good point. I'd forgotten that one.
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Not most
By: charlie on Tue, 22 January 2002 06:55 |
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Re: Not most
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Love for loves sake........
By: marc on Tue, 22 January 2002 14:17 |
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Re: Love for loves sake........
By: charlie on Tue, 22 January 2002 17:20 |
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