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To Lenny  [message #849] Mon, 11 February 2002 12:23 Go to previous message
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Out of respect for the thread you are using as your playground, I am replying here.

I refuse to accept that anything is dark enough about you to make me walk away from you. I wil not put words in anyone else's mouth, nor ask them to "sign up below" if the agree with me, for it is not as simple as one believes to say "I accept you unconditionally." Others here: if you truly believe that you can commit to unconditional acceptance of Lenny's issues, Do indicate so. It is NO shame not to do so. It is a tough thing to make a true commitment "sight unseen". If you do indicate to him that you can and will do this, please understand that "commitment" means "doing the thing that you said you would do, even when the mood you said it in has left you". He may tell us things that are dark to us as well as dark to him.

Lenny, if you choose either here or by email to contact me directly, I will listen. I'll make you a promise that I will not desert you, even if you manage to shock me. Gradually you may choose to reveal either in private or in public, the things that trouble you the most.

I doubt you are 100% alone in whatever troubles you. Sometimes simply talking allows the big things to become manageable.
 
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