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Sat, 16 February 2002 00:44

tim

Really getting into it

Location: UK, West of London in Ber...
Registered: February 2002
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We went to bed. I was even in a pleasantly erotic mood. We'd had a chinese takeaway and a beer and had a pleasant evening. We have water by the beds, so I took 3 mugs up, patterened plastic mugs. I'd never paid attention before except that the handles are different sizes and they are hard to hold in one hand because of it. I often carry them up. One for each bed.

She Who Must Be Obeyed tends to leave the marital bed sometime in the night because I snore, so one goe sin to what is laughingly termed "The Guest Room".

"You've not done the water right!"

"I have a mug by each bed."

"The wrong mugs are by the wrong beds."

"I never knew a particualr mug had to be by a particual rbed."

"I always have this mug," pointing to a particular pattern.

I reorganised the mugs. Then I must have made my second mistake. No my third mistake. The first one was to imagine fondly that horizontal jogging might take place, inferior as str8 sex may be. I mentioned that I did not like being reprimanded at bedtime, and that she somehow always contrived to reprimand me at bedtime.

I didn't raise my voice until she told me I was "making a big thing out of nothing" and cut me short.

It's now twenty to one, and I am downstairs with the laptop. SWMBO is presumably in "The Guest Room" and either in tears or "unable to sleep" because she is "upset". I am unable to sleep because I am upset. I feel like turning the stero on full blast and playing something rivetting like ABBA.

You probably gathered that the romantic erotic mood has vanished. I think she knows when I am feeling like sex. We don't make love. We have sex. And she intuitively wrecks it

		women By: tim on Sat, 16 February 2002 00:44
		Sorry. * H U G * I can relate, but mine snores too! By: trevor on Sat, 16 February 2002 02:19
		Oh, better hurry - she think's foreskin's gross. By: trevor on Sat, 16 February 2002 02:21
		Re: Oh, better hurry - she think's foreskin's gross. By: tim on Sat, 16 February 2002 17:51
		Dunno if this is the right thing to say/do at a time like this, but... By: lenny on Sat, 16 February 2002 09:24
		Ti, have you ever tried to talk to her about it... By: david in hong kong on Sat, 16 February 2002 10:23
		Oh yes By: tim on Sat, 16 February 2002 12:01
		This is to you, Tim... By: lenny on Sat, 16 February 2002 15:25
		you know JUST the right things to say By: tim on Sat, 16 February 2002 17:25
		Well, I really don't know about that... By: lenny on Sat, 16 February 2002 20:41
		The choice is no choice at all By: tim on Sun, 17 February 2002 10:41
		As long as you know what you want to do, AND do it... By: lenny on Sun, 17 February 2002 12:46
		Hugs By: tim on Sat, 16 February 2002 12:03
		A book recommendation By: trevor on Sat, 16 February 2002 19:37
		Re: A book recommendation By: tim on Sun, 17 February 2002 10:44
		Re: A book recommendation By: trevor on Sun, 17 February 2002 18:57
		Re: A book recommendation By: david in hong kong on Mon, 18 February 2002 11:50
		"whatever works is the best way..." By: trevor on Tue, 19 February 2002 20:01
		The saga continues By: tim on Mon, 18 February 2002 00:53
		hugs Been there, exactly, many times. By: trevor on Mon, 18 February 2002 01:49

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