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The one who just found out  [message #1862] Tue, 02 April 2002 13:00 Go to previous message
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Hi, I am the wife of one of yours and even that I said I would not come to this site I could not resist exploring his New World, that I did not understand. I always thought of this site to be about (dirty) SEX, (even more) LIES and (sappy) ROCK AND ROLL. But instead I found kind of the male version of “a girls night out”. Only speaking for myself, I can say it has helped me a lot reading your stories (well maybe not of each specimen of yours). Now I feel I don’t have to be worried as much anymore about this square box that might swallow my husband up whole and take him further away from me, to a place I can not reach as a heterosexual woman.

I read the conversation of someone, who said he would not want to have females on board since he would feel watched and not being able say anymore what he would like. To be honest I agree since my husband is not allowed to go to my female nights and if so only as a guest once in a while. But speaking for myself and other wives that were promised (by some of you) a heterosexual husband at the wedding, I think you owe us to be a “special guest” once in a while. Just to help us understand were you are coming from and to not be frightened rather understanding of this to us new situation.

Even If your wives read something that might hurt them, I personally think rather know about it and talk about it than imagine something that might not even be there. And remember, by telling us you are gay some time after you married us, you have lost a lot of trust. To regain that to me means to talk about it not to make us feel you are hiding something again.

I can now give my marriage 2 thumps up, I’m willing to try hard and hopefully we will both get a relationship in which we both can excel in.

Darren I love you very much,
Lots of hugs (sorry guys mine are not just letters on a keyboard, mine are real)
Christina
 
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