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Registered: March 2012
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Most of you don't know me or know my story...blah, blah, blah........anyway.....I have not had a relationship with my dad for....well I have not seen him for over 10 years....and had not seen him for years before that. When I did see him, when I was a kid....we had a very bad relationship. Also I have not seen or had any kind a relationship with my dad's parrents.....in almost 20 years, if not more!! Well my sister pasted a way a few months ago...so we got into contact with my dad and his parents, to let them know....well they came to the funeral...which I bitched about a few months ago on another board...they took it more as a family reunion!!...anyway!!....my dad's parents sent me an Easter Card, first card I got from them since...shit it might have been the first card ever.....they wrote in the card that they want to start knowing how I am doing and they want me to stay in contact with them, all that kinda shit. So the thing of it is ... should I? Or should I forget about them like they did me most of my life? I really don't know what to do!! Another things is....This person I know, which I just got back into contact with. She used to work at the doctors office that my dad's parents went to. She said, they really didn't talk much about my brother, sister or I.....but when they did they would always tell her....'oh well they just stopped talking to us, we don't know much about them, they never call or come over.' I just can't believe they would say that...making it look like we were the bad ones....we were just kids.....I was probably in the 5th grade the last time I saw them....they were the adults...they drove, we did not...they could have drove over to our house to see us, they could have picked up the phone and called us....but they made it sound, according to my friend, that we were the ones who are to blame for losing contact....At least my friend said the same thing...why didn't they (grandparents) call, write, etc...So at least she knew we were not the ones to blame!! I just wonder how many others they have told and think we were the bad ones for not keeping in contact with them.....grrrr........I don't know, I just don't know what to do....I just have sooo much hate built up for them.......that I don't know what I should do. So any advice you can give it sure would help. That is if you can understand what I just wrote...it probably don't make to much sense!!
Thanks,
Brad
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