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Steve
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Location: London, England
Registered: November 2006
Messages: 465
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I think most of us who took the "test" that Tim "recommended" realized that it was not very "scientific". While surfing the net I found a page in Esperanto (don't ask!). This page is by a 19 y.o. Dutch guy and it includes a kind of FAQ that I think may be a more helpful gayometer. The page does have an English link (at the top) but he didn't include the FAQ in his English translations.
This is the link: http://anaproy.homeip.net/proycon/gay.eo.html
And for the benefit of those of you who don't (yet) speak the International Language here is a translation:
How would I know whether I am gay?
I have made a list of typical gay behaviour:
- You aften look at beautiful guys and think "he's beautiful!" and seldom or never think "she's beautiful!"
- You watch a boring show on TV not because it's a good story ... but because there is a really beautiful guy in the programme!
- You are somewhat silent and timid in the dressing room at school: you enjoy the boy panorama but you feel you are an intruder.
- You can talk with boys about sensitive issues much more easily than with girls.
- You have absolutely no talent at sports.. (I don't know whether that is a general rule, but is certainly is true of me! 
If you are gay you will certainly find out one day ... take your time!
I think that I am gay but I don't want to be!
First of all your unconscious spirit will discover that you are gay ... but then there comes a difficult part for some guys: accepting that you really are gay. Possibly you don't want to be gay and you are shamed to be gay! But your being gay is part of you and you can never get rid of it. After accepting it you will feel better than ever and you will never want to be straight! Let yourself look at guys and enjoy!
I now know that I am gay ... but the whole world does not yet know it... How should I tell them?
The next stage is coming out of the closet: tell friends and family members what you really are. It isn't easy and you will near courage. After that you will be free!
Who should you tell first? Mother? Father? Female friend? Male friend? Member of the family? Neighbour? The dog? The dog certainly will have no problem with you being gay... but that's not the best 'person'. I think the majority of gay guys first come out to a female friend. Only you will decide who you will tell first. Understandably the people you tell will need time to digest the news. Girls are often happy that they can now chat with you about other boys. Coming out will defintely change your life! You will have more opportunities than ever before!
This is the end of my Gay FAQ. I hope that you find it useful information.
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Another Gayometer
By: Steve on Thu, 02 May 2002 09:29 |
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Who don't (yet) speak the International Language?
By: Darren on Thu, 02 May 2002 13:34 |
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Re: Who don't (yet) speak the International Language?
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The International Language(?) and a reliable gayometer
By: Steve on Fri, 03 May 2002 12:14 |
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I appoint you Co-ordinator
By: tim on Fri, 03 May 2002 13:30 |
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Steve (and Tim) - please take this seriously .......
By: cossie on Mon, 06 May 2002 00:43 |
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Steve (and Tim) - please take this seriously (take 2) .......
By: cossie on Mon, 06 May 2002 01:10 |
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Cossie, I have already promised Tim to do so
By: Steve on Mon, 06 May 2002 01:38 |
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Thanks, Steve!
By: trevor on Mon, 06 May 2002 03:59 |
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It seems to me
By: Steve on Mon, 06 May 2002 04:54 |
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I will fit it within this section
By: tim on Mon, 06 May 2002 09:29 |
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Re: I will fit it within this section
By: trevor on Mon, 06 May 2002 16:27 |
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Cossie, Cossie, Cossie
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Kinsey has a scale
By: tim on Tue, 07 May 2002 11:20 |
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And here it is
By: tim on Tue, 07 May 2002 11:24 |
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I take your point, but ...
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That IS a mild interest!
By: tim on Tue, 07 May 2002 11:49 |
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Unique case of major interest
By: trevor on Tue, 07 May 2002 16:16 |
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Yes, certainly love, and friendship, and everything else
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You rang .... ?
By: cossie on Wed, 08 May 2002 00:49 |
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Androgenous disappointment
By: trevor on Wed, 08 May 2002 06:24 |
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Re: You rang .... ?
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International confrontation .....
By: cossie on Thu, 09 May 2002 02:08 |
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Sighs ...
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OK, OK ......
By: cossie on Fri, 10 May 2002 00:27 |
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OK, OK ......
By: cossie on Fri, 10 May 2002 00:34 |
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I dont; eliminate the Welsh!
By: tim on Wed, 08 May 2002 10:44 |
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Ambiguity there, Tim. Did you intend that semi-colon?
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Now I come; to think of it!
By: tim on Wed, 08 May 2002 15:22 |
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I'm; much relieved
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*grins*
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