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Need advice ... [message #2869]

Fri, 31 May 2002 20:38

Guest

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Registered: March 2012
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Hi all,
I have visited this website regularly and enjoyed the stories very much.
I really need some advices for the problem I am facing now.

I am 21 yo gay boy in Germany. I have been in relation for 3 years with someone older from US, he is 65 this year. He is married. We meet regularly 3-4 times a year while he is on business trips to Europe. He always said he has no other boys than me, until recently I found out that he has paid for escort regularly whenever he was away from home.
I am really sad and angry. I love him very much, more than words can say. I know it's hard to believe, but I also enjoy sex with him very much. I can come by simply kissing him. I have had chances where I could stray, but I didn't do it, cause I believe in our relationship.
And no ... I have no financial interest on him, I still paid the travel expenses by my own whenever we met somewhere in Europe. I have sacrificed a lot in order to meet him everytime he was here. I think he simply says he loves me cause he can have me for free ....

Now I am really thinking to have my revenge. I have all that's needed to proof that he is gay. I can simply send them to his wife. So he can not fool around anymore.

Yeaaaaahhhhh .... maybe it's the evil part of me ... do you all think that I should do that or not? But then, I might not be able to see him again. Should I just pretend nothing has happened and continue our relationship?

Thanks all,
Daniel

		Need advice ... By: Guest on Fri, 31 May 2002 20:38
		Hm... By: lenny on Fri, 31 May 2002 21:54
		Sad & Angry By: trevor on Fri, 31 May 2002 22:37
		Re: Need advice ... By: e on Fri, 31 May 2002 23:15
		Moving Forward Positively By: david in hong kong on Sat, 01 June 2002 03:47
		He cheated on his wife to be with you....... By: marc on Sat, 01 June 2002 03:52
		Try hard not to let love turn to vengeance By: tim on Sat, 01 June 2002 09:24
		Re: Need advice ... By: Guest on Sat, 01 June 2002 11:36
		Sometimes By: tim on Sat, 01 June 2002 12:56
		A friend of mind By: trevor on Sat, 01 June 2002 19:05
		Think about it a bit.. By: Guest on Sat, 01 June 2002 19:16
		Sounds all one sided to me..... By: marc on Mon, 03 June 2002 13:23
		One sided has merits, for a while By: tim on Mon, 03 June 2002 14:17
		Yes, perhaps.... But the "while" is so short....... By: marc on Tue, 04 June 2002 13:03
		Don't Knock Phantasms By: tim on Tue, 04 June 2002 18:49
		Daniel schick mal ne Mail wenn Du reden magst By: Michael Simon on Sat, 01 June 2002 21:29
		Your heart may say yes...... But what does HIS say... By: marc on Tue, 04 June 2002 13:59
		Thx all ! By: Guest on Sun, 02 June 2002 04:05
		A place such as this allows thought By: tim on Sun, 02 June 2002 09:38
		Re: Need advice ... By: mt on Mon, 03 June 2002 12:47
		Yep ... By: Guest on Tue, 04 June 2002 20:37
		Re: Yep ... By: mt on Wed, 05 June 2002 14:34
		Re: Well this is what I would do if I were YOU By: Guest on Thu, 06 June 2002 11:35
		It's all well and good.... By: Guest on Thu, 06 June 2002 14:13

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