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icon5.gif I want to tell someone something important  [message #3228] Fri, 21 June 2002 16:01 Go to previous message
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"I want to tell someone something important. The problem is I am not sure he will listen to me, but I know he will hear my words. What I have to say to him is something I believe deep in my heart he needs to hear, something I know he needs to pay attention to, and something I fear he may take badly."

Does that sound familiar?

I am a true friend so I feel bound to tell the person, but I am scared, too, that I might offend him and even make him push me away.


Now, the challenge is how do I do it. No, that isnlt the challenge at all. The challenge is how I wil feel once I tell him, and how I wil feel waiitng for his reply if any, and how I will feel if his reply seems to push me away.

What do I do, guys? I cannot just stand by and say nothing. That option is a non starter. So what do I do? How should I feel? It's a theoretical problem and also a real one.
 
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