My question is directed towards those participants on this board who, like myself, are by choice or circumstance homosexually celibate - either because we are married or because we are too young, too old, too lazy, or whatever.

We all have homosexual erotic impulses. My question is which of the four basic origins mentioned above is uppermost in your erotic experiences. To put it more bluntly: what gives you the most erotic stimulation? - anticipation of or imagining genital contact, oral contact, anal contact or visual - i.e. just looking at and imagining naked young men and not necessarily what you would do with them.

Please participate in this discussion as I believe that it could be helpful to several of us on this board. (I have Tim's permission to raise this issue.) I shall certainly contribute if a discussion ensues, but I don't want to give my own 'take' at the start for fear of influencing the direction of the discussion.

Over to you.