warren c. e. austin
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Location: Toronto, Ontario, CANADA
Registered: February 2003
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... the song lyrics to romantic ballads, and such are seldom gender neutral? I know I have, which is why (when I encounter one, especially if it manages to bring a tear to my eye, or otherwise somehow tugs at the old heart-strings) I usually sub-consciously make a note of it, and will then find myself days, or even weeks later searching for information about it.
This has happened to me twice in the past several months; the first time when I stumbled across an early BoyZone recording of "No Matter What" when surfing the internet looking for information on Stephen Gately, and just today when tuned into a local Country and Western station (which I seldom am) I recognized Darryl Worley's "I Miss My Friend", a tune that had been plaguing me for weeks.
I guess what I really trying to emote here, is just how truly refreshing I find songs of this nature to be, given present day societal values and all. Yes, over the years there have been any number of "Gay" themed songs to make the Hit Parade, songs like the Village People's "YMCA", et al, Boy George's "Do You Really Want To Hurt Me" and many by the likes of Elton John, Queen, Spandau Ballet and Wham! amongst others; but, with little exception, they have been blatantly stereotypical of our communities mind-set of what others see us as.
A good example of this is Supertramp's "Goodbye Stranger". When this was current (the mid-1970's), I couldn't help but wonder, every time I heard it, just what the monied grey-rinse set in old Forest Hills Village in the heart of ever so staid, and not quite laid-back Toronto was thinking as they listened to the song, if in fact they ever troubled themselves to figure out the lyrics, and maybe it's just as well that they probably never did.
My God the subject of Male-prostitution certainly wouldn't go down too well over their tea and crumpets.
Any ways I rambling here, and what I definitely wanted to say is I find it somewhat gratifying when a remarkable song such as the two I list for you all below, actually makes it to the charts and received wide-spread exposure, and is rewarded with significant enough records sales to have justified the gamble the artists may have taken in recording them.
I do know that we need more of them. Many more, and if for no other reasons than the positive re-enforcement they provide for alternative life-styles in an increasingly hostile world.
Lyrics BoyZone's No Matter What found here:
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/boyzone/nomatterwhat.html
Lyrics to Darryl Worley's "I Miss My Friend" found here:
http://www.leoslyrics.com/listlyrics.php?sid=%CA%D35%C8%3B5%CF%06
Warren C. E. Austin
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