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Darren is currently offline  Darren

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Hi All!!!!

It has been many months since I last posted. I see a few new faces have arrived, while as far as I can tell tim became timmy??? Is there a story here? (happy belated birthday by the way).

We finally shed the remnants of our house guests—we had them for 7 weeks, which is quite a long time. Times were good and they helped us out a lot, but it is nice to have your privacy again. Especially when you are trying to produce offspring!!!

I am becoming very comfortable about myself being gay. My wife has really accepted it nicely too. I still have only told a few people, but I am now getting close to possibly telling more. However, whenever I get to such a moment, I usually chicken out. I am not looking for a boyfriend so I guess it is not so important. However, friends are best when you are talking totally honestly to them.

The biggest change in my life is that my parents are not really talking to me now. You would think it is because I am gay. I have not told them, but that shock would probably go over OK, as they have a close gay friend and have invited my gay friend and his boyfriend to functions before. Rather the problem is more sorted and due to my wife and my mom not being able to get along. Women! Both are very head strong. Put and put a spineless wimp in between (yes! that’s me), and it spells a message for disaster. Well, finally I set the record straight (yes the spineless wimp stood up to his mom) and laid out the problem for her, which she still does not believe (blaming the daughter-in-law is always easier than admitting your own mistakes). When I talked to her, it was cool for the first time being in control with her. However, her pride is much stronger than her love for me and she has decided to part company for the next while (how long—who knows??). It was sad for me, but I have a great wife, totally awesome in-laws, and great aunt and cousins that live nearby. So I am OK.

Otherwise, I don’t have too much to tell. I will do my best to post as regular as possible.

Hugs to all

Darren
 
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