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going to call it off for now  [message #7038] Tue, 07 January 2003 23:24 Go to next message
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i think im gonna tell my internet friend that now isnt the right time for me... it really isnt. internet dating is too far out there for the 17yr old me, it just isnt right yet, maybe another time

thank you all for the discussion though, i appretiate it and big thanks to my buddy timmer for bringing it up
Re: going to call it off for now  [message #7039 is a reply to message #7038] Wed, 08 January 2003 00:52 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Hi there ..

Don't worry ... You will know when its the right time ..
Its better to take it slow and careful ..
And if your friend really want you as a friend ..he will understand and agree with you and wait ..

good luck and take care ...
Re: going to call it off for now  [message #7040 is a reply to message #7038] Wed, 08 January 2003 02:27 Go to previous messageGo to next message
tim...of usa is currently offline  tim...of usa

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your a smart kid and you'll know when the time is right for you.
in the mean time deal with the home front first and work on the stuff you need to.

always here for you

peace little bro

tim...of USA
Re: going to call it off for now  [message #7041 is a reply to message #7038] Wed, 08 January 2003 03:26 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I'm sure that you've made the decision that is right for you, right now. It takes a lot of maturity to show restraint and to make a decision that may be going against what your heart really desires.

Think good thoughts,
e
Re: going to call it off for now  [message #7049 is a reply to message #7038] Thu, 09 January 2003 12:46 Go to previous message
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Realised I missed this having just written a reply to tim's original post.

I think you've made a good decision. Apart from being ready for a relationship, I can see there would be big problems (eg transport, where to hang out etc) if you're trying to keep it secret from parents.

If he's worth waiting for, he'll still be there when you're ready. And when you're ready, cover your back the first few times you do meet up for real.

Maybe have a read of what i said to Tim anyway! Good luck Smile

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