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A polite request  [message #8243] Thu, 06 March 2003 03:26 Go to next message
Steve is currently offline  Steve

Really getting into it
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Registered: November 2006
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Dear friends,

It would please me very much if we could stop the discussions about Iraq - it is rather off-topic for this board after all. You see, I am ambivalent about all this, and feel myself to be right in the middle of it all. On the one hand I do feel that sheer wickedness (i.e. Saddam Hussein and his régime) should be punished and obliterated, and some power or other would have to do that. But on the other hand I am not a war-monger and feel sick at heart at the thought of how many innocent people will have to suffer and/or die in order to achieve that aim.



Yesterday I spent almost two excruciating hours waiting for one of the visitors to this MB to phone me so that I would know that he was not among those students killed by a suicide bomber; (thank God, he was not). Many young and innocent people were killed and maimed in that incident. But the family of that suicide terrorist will receive from Saddam Hussein $35000 as compensation for the loss of their dear one - and in order to encourage still more young people to become human bombs.



I know it is a cheek to ask this, but could we please stop the discussion on this topic. I do not find it productive and I do find it very painful.

icon7.gif Re: A polite request  [message #8248 is a reply to message #8243] Thu, 06 March 2003 04:10 Go to previous messageGo to next message
kevin is currently offline  kevin

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I never meant to cause you pain. I am so sorry.

My feelings are not ambivalent or trivial. You may not agree, and that is OK. But please understand this about me ....

If my government starts a war and kills in my name, and I say nothing, then I betray my country, my faith, my fellow man, an myself. This is not acceptable to me.

But I will refrain here, I just think it a shame that I cannot share that part of me here. I will find other ways to voice my opinions on this issue. I am writing for on-line and print media on the subject.

KOOKY ACTIVIST

Kevin



"Be excellent to each other, and, party on dudes"!
Could we keep it constrained to a single thread?  [message #8251 is a reply to message #8248] Thu, 06 March 2003 04:31 Go to previous messageGo to next message
trevor is currently offline  trevor

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I totally understand your reasoning, Steve, and the idea has a hearty "Amen!" from my corner - I do not appreciate debate anyway, and more so when it disrupts the peace, spills into unrelated threads, and interferes with our friendship and support of each other. Some enjoy a good match of words and opinions, while others are easily hurt by words taken easily or hitting too close to home.

If we can control ourselves and keep anything related to this topic in a single thread, then Steve and I can avoid that thread like it was porn with boobs - er - or something.

timmy?
icon4.gif Re: A polite request  [message #8265 is a reply to message #8243] Thu, 06 March 2003 13:26 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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At risk of pissing a few of you off, I am weediing the war threads down to a single one, and WILL weed any new ones.

So, if you want to know where your marvellously phrased rebuttal of something or other has gone, it is in the bit bucket along with mine.

Time to get our heads UP and to move forward



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: A polite request  [message #8269 is a reply to message #8265] Thu, 06 March 2003 14:42 Go to previous message
rbryce is currently offline  rbryce

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as long as you britts stop bashing the US
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