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icon4.gif Transitions  [message #8439] Sat, 15 March 2003 04:32 Go to next message
david in hong kong is currently offline  david in hong kong

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Well, the essence of life is in change, I guess. Change adds both spice and anxiety to life, doesn't it?

Those of you who have been aware of my current situation might recall that I have been thinking of making some major changes in my life. Those thoughts are becoming reality!

In 17 weeks time, I will be leaving my job in Hong Kong and resuming residence and work in the country that has been my heart's true home since 1990. Timmy will have to advise me how to chane my registered name on this MB from "David in Hong Kong" to "David in Thailand".

Yes, it's all happening. The group I wanted to join has invited me. It's a group of equals, there are no "Directors" and "employees", and I will become their 6th full partner, so it was no small thing to be invited to join them! Man will continue to keep our home about 1.5 hours drive from Bangkok, and I'll do some commuting while renting a nice small place to live during the work week. Man will be happy to come to the big city (Bangkok is actually nick-named "The Big Mango") every week or so, which means that we will be together more than half the average week.

I'll be leaving the security of the best salary and benefits package I've ever had, and moving into the unknown budget-wise, but there's every chance of things working out well financially after the initial settling in period. I'll have far less admin work to do, and more time for the parts of my job that I actually love, and also more time for writing, language study, all sorts of things really.

Plus Man and I will be together again.

So, after 5 years working in Hong Kong, I'll be going home.

It still all feels rather surreal, but I'm beginning to adjust to the new reality.

Thanks, everybody, for your good advice and good energy sent my way. It's working! YAY!!!!



"Always forgive your enemies...nothing annoys them quite so much." Oscar Wilde
icon7.gif Woo Hoo! Congrats!  [message #8441 is a reply to message #8439] Sat, 15 March 2003 04:42 Go to previous messageGo to next message
trevor is currently offline  trevor

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icon14.gif I'm so happy I could cry.  [message #8442 is a reply to message #8439] Sat, 15 March 2003 04:44 Go to previous messageGo to next message
charlie is currently offline  charlie

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Re: Transitions  [message #8444 is a reply to message #8439] Sat, 15 March 2003 08:10 Go to previous messageGo to next message
e is currently offline  e

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Congratulations. Change can be both welcome and stressful at once. I know I'm not too sure yet about how my own change will turn out. But it does sound like you will have much more time for the things you love, Man and at work. I hope it works out for both of you.

Think good thoughts,
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icon6.gif Whooppee!!!!! Well done, David!!!!!  [message #8447 is a reply to message #8439] Sat, 15 March 2003 09:45 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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icon14.gif Good luck David!  [message #8448 is a reply to message #8439] Sat, 15 March 2003 10:57 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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icon14.gif Ditto to what Charlie said!  [message #8449 is a reply to message #8439] Sat, 15 March 2003 13:22 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Darren is currently offline  Darren

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I think it should be 'David in Eternal Bliss' instead of 'David from Thailand'.

Cheers,

Darren
icon7.gif I can't think of any other word that fits better than "Wheee!"...  [message #8451 is a reply to message #8439] Sat, 15 March 2003 14:13 Go to previous messageGo to next message
lenny is currently offline  lenny

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It's also such a happy word, don't you think? Smile

It sounds wonderful. WONDERFUL. I bet you're one giggly schoolboy right now, David... Very Happy


I also think you should stop writing stories in Word, or at least not save them in .doc format, but that's something else entirely. Smile

More to come in an email.


Hugs:
-L



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direct my sail."

-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
icon7.gif {{{{HUGS}}}}  [message #8452 is a reply to message #8439] Sat, 15 March 2003 17:24 Go to previous messageGo to next message
smith is currently offline  smith

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Yep, Lenny Smile Wheeeeeeee is a GREAT word. David, when you first mentioned your plan, I hoped you would follow your heart and be happy. I am sitting here all smiley :):):)Smile for you that you will have the best of everything in life.

David in Thailand >>>giggle<<< Nice ring to it !!

{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}} smith in Florida Smile
icon7.gif Mihangel....You Rascal  [message #8456 is a reply to message #8447] Sun, 16 March 2003 00:27 Go to previous messageGo to next message
smith is currently offline  smith

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Where've you been? Glad to see you all sassy back on the MB. Your chair has your name on the back.......Tell us what you've been doin'.

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icon7.gif Every good wish, David, for you and your Man  [message #8458 is a reply to message #8439] Sun, 16 March 2003 02:21 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Steve is currently offline  Steve

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Hey, David in Thailand...lol.  [message #8479 is a reply to message #8439] Sun, 16 March 2003 18:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Charlie Smith is currently offline  Charlie Smith

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Yeah that's great news dude. You'll soon be back with your Man...lol.

Charlie in UK.
icon7.gif Wow - it's been awhile - great to see you, CS!  [message #8492 is a reply to message #8479] Mon, 17 March 2003 03:23 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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icon7.gif Your great at any location .....  [message #8495 is a reply to message #8439] Mon, 17 March 2003 04:02 Go to previous message
kevin is currently offline  kevin

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If it makes you happy, then I am happy for you.

Live for today, because your worth it.

Big Hugs,

Kevin



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