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Speaks For Itself. This teen has real guts...  [message #8544] Thu, 20 March 2003 11:14 Go to next message
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ACLU Warns Arkansas School to Stop Persecuting Gay Student
March 13, 2003
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

JACKSONVILLE, AR -- The American Civil Liberties Union is challenging
officials at Jacksonville Junior High School over repeated punishment
of a 14-year-old student for being openly gay. In a letter to school
officials sent today, the ACLU demanded that the school stop
violating the student's rights and remove all unconstitutional
disciplinary actions taken against him from his record by March 21 or
face legal action.

In its letter, the ACLU said that school officials "outed" the gay
student, Thomas McLaughlin, to his parents against his wishes and
have since told him he must not discuss being gay while at school,
forced him to read from the Bible and disciplined him for being open
about his sexual orientation.

"My school forced me out of the closet when I should have been
allowed to come out to my family on my own terms and when I thought
it was the right time. And now the school has been trying to shove me
back into it ever since," McLaughlin said. "I'm through with being
silenced, and I don't want this happening to other gay kids at my
school."

McLaughlin's troubles with the school began last year, when a school
official called McLaughlin's mother to tell her that her son was gay.
McLaughlin, who at that point had only come out to a handful of close
friends at school, wasn't ready to tell his parents yet.

To "out" a young person to his or her parents is more than a mere
overstepping of boundaries -- it can have tragic consequences, such
as when a Pennsylvania youth heard a similar threat from police
officers in 1997 and committed suicide rather than face what he
feared would be rejection from his family. In that case, a federal
appeals court has held that threatening to disclose private
information violated the teenager's constitutional right to privacy.
Fortunately for McLaughlin, his parents were accepting and
understanding, avoiding such tragedy.

"Students should not be punished for being honest about their sexual
orientation," said Leslie Cooper, staff attorney with the ACLU's
Lesbian and Gay Rights Project. "It's shameful how Jacksonville
Junior High School has trampled on Thomas McLaughlin's constitutional
rights to intimidate and silence him from being honest about who he
is. If this were civics class, the school would be failing."

Now that McLaughlin has become more open about his sexual
orientation, the school has made numerous attempts to punish and
silence him for being out at school:

One teacher called a conference with McLaughlin's parents and the
principal because she objected to his being open about being gay.
During the meeting, the principal concurred that she was opposed to
McLaughlin talking at school about being gay.

A different teacher ordered McLaughlin not to discuss his sexual
orientation, saying that she found it "sickening," and later called
his mother to complain about his homosexuality.

School officials preached their religious views on homosexuality and
forced him to read aloud from the Bible in clear violation of the
establishment clause of the First Amendment. This was done as
punishment after McLaughlin, who is himself a Christian, disagreed
with a teacher for calling him "abnormal" and "unnatural."

In violation of McLaughlin's free speech rights, the school suspended
him for two days for telling other students about being made to read
the Bible in school. The principal and assistant principal also told
McLaughlin that if he told any of his friends why he was suspended,
they would recommend that he be expelled.

McLaughlin is not even allowed to participate in typical teenage
conversations about crushes. In January he was disciplined for
talking between classes with a female friend about a boy they both
considered "cute." He was disciplined; his friend was not.

"Thomas McLaughlin's school has completely overstepped the boundaries
of the law in the way it has treated him," said Rita Sklar, Executive
Director of the ACLU of Arkansas. "School officials have no place
trying to convert a student's religious beliefs to their own, and
they certainly have no place using religion as a way to punish
students."

The case is being handled by the ACLU's Lesbian and Gay Rights
Project and attorney Kathy Hall of Little Rock.


Text of the ACLU letter to school officials: (go to
http://www.aclu.org/LesbianGayRights/LesbianGayRights.cfm?ID=12082&c=106
and scroll down)
Re: Speaks For Itself. This teen has real guts...  [message #8545 is a reply to message #8544] Thu, 20 March 2003 12:18 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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It's sickening that so often the USA is not "the land of the free", but it is heartening that in cases like this it clearly is "the home of the brave".

Forgive a foreigner's cheek, but there is something really wrong with the values system of a local authority that will permit an 'educational establishment' - one can hardly grace it with the name of a school - to behave in such a manner. And what can be said of the values system of a State authority that does not act, and of a Federal authority that does not act?

The USA, which prides itself with not having an established religion, is the most Christian country in the world - and to this non-Christian it displays far too often a wrong and warped face of Christianity.

After reading that account I just had to say all this. I know I must have offended some of you: it was not intentional; please forgive me.
No offence taken  [message #8546 is a reply to message #8545] Thu, 20 March 2003 16:21 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I largely agree with your viewpoint. This young man is truly brave. Not many would have the guts to take on their own school. I imagine that a lot of his courage is inspired by his parents who accepted him for what he was. They should be commended as well.

As for the school officials, it sounds like at least the principal and perhaps one or two teachers need to face disciplinary action, perhaps even be fired. No student should be subjected to they've done to him.

You're questioning of the actions of the state and federal authorities seems a bit hasty, though. The article doesn't mention anyone outside the local school system having been informed. It is possible that no one has been. At least not until the ACLU wrote that letter. It would be interesting to see the response.

Christians can be some of the finest people in the world. They can also be some of the meanest, most intolerant, and hurtful. Unfortunately, many seem to feel that God has given them a mandate to force their beliefs on others. When those beliefs are rejected, they can become quite ugly.

There is no state sponsored religion in the US. However, relgious groups and organizations can wield a lot of power. Some see it as their responsibility to become involved in politics. It seems that the more fundamentalist, the more vocal. I think that this is one reason for the "warped face of Christianity" seen by the rest of the world. Another is the media's tendency to report only the extreme. It would not have been deemed newsworthy to report the thousands of cases where this type of discrimination was not tolerated by the school system and did not occur.

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Re: No offence taken  [message #8551 is a reply to message #8546] Fri, 21 March 2003 02:28 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Damn.. I'm very impressed and completely agree with what you guys have said... All I can say I Wow..
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Re: No offence taken  [message #8553 is a reply to message #8551] Fri, 21 March 2003 04:16 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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icon6.gif School contact info...  [message #8608 is a reply to message #8544] Sun, 23 March 2003 17:29 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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In case anyone wants to offer their opinions to the school administration, the following info was lifted from another board:

"....the Jacksonville schools are part of the Pulaski County Special School District. In which case it is the largest school district in the state, encompassing much of the Little Rock metropolitan area.

It is. Jacksonville Jr. H.S.
1320 School DR.
Jacksonville, AR 72076
(501) 982-1587
FAX (501) 241-2139

Principles name is Brenda Allen email is: ballen@pcssd.org

They dont have a web page

This is the link to the school districts website http://www.pcssdweb.k12.ar.us/ "

Have fun and remember to be nice....that realy freaks these people out.

E.J.
I wrote thus, and from my personal named email account:  [message #8609 is a reply to message #8608] Sun, 23 March 2003 18:29 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I am a fifty year old married man living in England, father of a fine 18 year old son at school at (schoolname)in England.

He and I have been discussing your school's actions with regard to Thomas McLaughlin. He was horrified to learn that officials at your school had told the boy's family he was gay, which is a highly private matter, and equally horrified to learn that your staff are persecuting the boy for his sexual orientation, which is inbuilt into him, and not a matter for sin, or some misguided cure.

My own son is fortunate enough both to be heterosexual and attend a school that accepts homosexuality as one of many normal variations in a diverse biology. He has several homosexual friends at school, and is content that they are who they are, and he is who he is. He passes no judgement.

He and I wondered why you do not follow the same enlightened attitude. This is the area I would like your help on, please:

Why, first, did your teachers cause this boy great grief by telling his family?

And second, why are they persecuting him?

The world is scrutinising your actions. The ACLU is likely to take you to court. Your actions would also not be legal if you were a UK school. My heart goes out to Thomas.



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Bible belt mentality  [message #8618 is a reply to message #8609] Mon, 24 March 2003 11:27 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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The concept is simple.

If the Bible does not say it...... It is impossible.

If the Bible does say it...... Then it is law.

If you show or demonstrate an attitude or lifestyle other than professed in their Bible then it is their HOLY OBLIGATION to bring the miscreant back into the fold.

These people will not waver from their tunnel vision approach.

Their limited mentality prevents any sory of origional thought.
icon7.gif Which does nto mean "do not try"  [message #8620 is a reply to message #8618] Mon, 24 March 2003 13:07 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Yes indeed  [message #8626 is a reply to message #8620] Mon, 24 March 2003 21:52 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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If the Bible thumpers were never challenged, man would never have ventured into space as the heavens would still be revolving around the Earth. The new world would not have been discovered as the world would still be flat.

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I was not refering to efforts and encouragement.....  [message #8627 is a reply to message #8620] Mon, 24 March 2003 22:59 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I was however outlining what anyone would have to contend with when dealing with such people.

The hammering of this religous rhetoric into the people of the southern bible belt, commencing from the time when one is able to understand the spoken word ingranes this mentality into every facet of daily life. That just do not have the origionality of thought to come up with an idea on thier own.

That is why they see nothing wrong in forcing the boy to read from the Bible. The thought that is wrong would never occur to them, let alone taking into account the fact that it is unconstitutional.
I agree....  [message #8630 is a reply to message #8626] Mon, 24 March 2003 23:03 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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And there is the fact that some of this country is not in the deep south bible belt.

For these people it is not a challenge to their religous belief. It is a response to (as they see it) sin of the most virul kind.

I see your point, but there is a difference in their motives here.
icon6.gif Re: I was not refering to efforts and encouragement.....  [message #8642 is a reply to message #8627] Tue, 25 March 2003 06:41 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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lets send ALL bible thumpers to Iraq--hehehe
I agree. And yet intransigence can be cured, eventually  [message #8643 is a reply to message #8627] Tue, 25 March 2003 08:34 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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For, unlike homosexuality, intransigence is a sin.

Let us, therefore, take every gentle opportunity to bring their misdeed to their attention



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Re: Speaks For Itself. This teen has real guts...  [message #8727 is a reply to message #8544] Thu, 27 March 2003 20:27 Go to previous message
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I would hope that this post be sent to other boards and forums.We seem to have a wonderful oppertunity here to empower ourselves by this internet.Togeather WE are a strength-that is if we do not let it slip through our fingers! rob
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