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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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Yesterday and today I and several other friends have had a very challenging experience. The reason for posting this here is in the hope tatthe friend who caused it will read it and realise that he is still loved, and we hope he will get back in touch.
A visit was to take place to one of us. The visitor had saved for ages and travelled a long way from the other side of the Atlantic to be here. A new career beckoned. It still beckons.
He made a mistake or two in his life, we think, and got trapped in a set of half truths and unruths. He felt unable to tell the truth, and because of this came here with an incomplete set of travel instruments and a story that was different from that known to his host.
Immigration is sending him home later today. He will be able to reapply to come to the UK again and, with 100% truth and the right papers, will be accepted.
My friend, it will not be half as embarrassing as you fear to talk to me again. I forgive you the untruths already. I tried to visit you at the detnetion centre and was not allowed. I think you were too embarrassed to call me from there. I wish you were not embarrassed.
The only thing that hs changed is that I now know who you are. It would have made no difference if I had known before. And the main thing is I am weeping because I will not get my hug. So I send it to you now, here, hoping that you will get it.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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If he rings or mails you, please tell him that OZ boi sends him hugs and love too.. I dun care who he is either 
People have a habit of changing your direction through life
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I don't know who you are, but I know Timmy gives the BEST hugs there are in the universe! Please go back to the UK and collect yours! You will love it i am sure.
Timmy wants to be your friend, please let him.
Sincerely:
-Lenny
"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."
-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
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Toe is in the water |
Location: Netherlands
Registered: April 2002
Messages: 81
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They're warm and cosey and make you feel great
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I haven't gotten that yet, but someday, right Timmy?
I don't know who Timmy is talking about, but you haven't lost him as a friend. I'm here in the states, I've trusted Timmy with a lot of things that I'm just being able now to tell others.
When Timmy says he still wants you for a friend, you can take it to the bank, he does.
You need some help, just get ahold of one of your friends, I know they won't turn you away.
Brian
To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.
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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13796
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I am so happy that he got back in touch. I was scared he would not. NOW we can work towards solving his problems
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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marc
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Needs to get a life! |
Registered: March 2003
Messages: 4729
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His problems are not such that can be resolved online.
He needs real time help.
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13796
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He will get the help I can give him. That starts with continued and renewed friendship
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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marc
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Needs to get a life! |
Registered: March 2003
Messages: 4729
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It may very well be that the online world is the cause of our friends distress.
Friends online are a good thing as long as everything is kept within perspective. Once this perspective becomes blured then it is time for someone in the real world help.
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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Friendship gets tested 
To Timmy's friend: 
Yeah, I agree I have never gotten a better hug then timmy's 
