tim...of usa
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Location: buffalo, new york...USA
Registered: July 2002
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bad things hapen in life and we have to face them and deal with them. no one ever said life is fair or even easy but all in all its is good and can be a heck of a lot of fun if we choose to learn and grow.
some ICK has happened around here (not here but around some members) and some folsk have been hurt, not a good thing but a part of life. the thing is the parties can choose to be hurt and angry for a long time or they can listen to others opinions and learn and grwo from the mistakes that may have been made. if ever time i got questioned about my actions and motives behind my actions i got all pissy and stomped my feet and ran and hide from life i would never see day light again. i for one count on other people to question me and call me on my actions, some times i am just to close to a personal issuee to see it clearly. friends in my humble opinion are the ones that have the balls to stand up to me and say "hey tim what the hell are you doing" i may not at that second understand what there motive is but i will give them the respect to listen to what they have to say and move on from there.
so bottom line: yes bad things happen and some times i get my hand slapped and some times i am the one slapping a hand or 2, dont make me a better person or worse person either way it just makes me human and prone to mistakes and open to grow.
ok ok getting off my soap box now
peace
hugs
tim...of USA
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