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Assistance Requested  [message #9845] Thu, 24 April 2003 11:39 Go to next message
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I am currently in the process of assembling a listing of Gay Genre Film. To date the list tops over 500. As in any project of this type, multiple eyes and tastes work to a greater end.

So I ask.......

If you know of any obscure films, actors, directors, film companies of Gay and Gay Genre film please email them to me at Marcthevad@sbcglobal.net.

Any input would be appreciated....

Also, if you know of any places where this message would be of benefit to this task, please forward it.

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icon6.gif Re: Assistance Requested  [message #9858 is a reply to message #9845] Thu, 24 April 2003 21:52 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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do obscure home jerk-off movies count?
Re: Assistance Requested  [message #9859 is a reply to message #9858] Thu, 24 April 2003 22:14 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I'm looking for better movies.

If they fall into the category of XXX but is of exceptional merit it will be considered.



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icon6.gif Re: Assistance Requested  [message #9860 is a reply to message #9859] Thu, 24 April 2003 23:29 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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your a good egg marc i was only joking but your ok in my book---hugs rob
"The Celluloid Closet"  [message #9866 is a reply to message #9860] Fri, 25 April 2003 11:44 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Terrific movie about the history of gay film and the industry. Hilarious and educational both. And the list of credits and references of sources, if I remember correctly, is quite long and detailed. That film alone provides a huge territory to cover.



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Added it to the list..... But I'm looking for more... Lots more....  [message #9955 is a reply to message #9866] Mon, 28 April 2003 16:50 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I figured there would be more films to be added to the list.....

It is all right to also recomend "feel good" films as well....

If there is a movie that moves you in some way.... Well that's OK too....



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A thought  [message #9956 is a reply to message #9955] Mon, 28 April 2003 17:02 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Have a look at Coyoteee's site http://www.coyoteee.com "You are Not Alone" was a milestone that went sadly unnoticed. He has several others there, too.



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Re: A thought Already on the list..... :-) More..... More.....  [message #9957 is a reply to message #9956] Mon, 28 April 2003 17:34 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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More...  [message #9970 is a reply to message #9956] Tue, 29 April 2003 00:01 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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"This Special Friendship" (French film)

"The Spanish Gardner" (in Spanish)

"The Orphans" (Russian film)

"Blue Jeans" (French)

All the Spanish Director Pedro Aldomovar (sp??)films

And what was that Brazilian film "Pixote". Awesome one.



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We now have them all except "the orphans"  [message #9981 is a reply to message #9970] Tue, 29 April 2003 10:05 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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There were 44+matches on the search

Do you mean the version titled "Podranki" by Nikolai Gubenko?



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Sorry...I can't remember...  [message #9987 is a reply to message #9981] Tue, 29 April 2003 12:06 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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About 1/3 of my video library is at our house in Thailand...so I'll have to dig thru the drawers when I get there in July. If I don't remember, don't be shy about remonding me.

By the way, do you have "This Boy's Life" on your list, with a young teen DiCaprio as the step-son of a sadistic Robert De Niro? There is a very sweet friendship with a gay best friend,and the kiss on the piano bench is memorable.



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icon7.gif Man Looked...  [message #9988 is a reply to message #9987] Tue, 29 April 2003 12:42 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Just as I posted the previous reply, Man called for his nightly phone chat, so I had him take a look. "The Orphans" Mosfilm Production, 1983. Cast includes Yousas Budraitis, Georgyi Burkov, and Aliosha Cherstvov. And you should have listened as Man tried to spell these out for me! You owe him big time, Marc!

You must also already have "M. Butterfly", "Priscilla Queen of the Desert", and "Too Wong Foo" with Wesley Snipes and Patrick Swayze, right?

Also don't forget "THe Priest", might be Irish, could be British, I don't remember. Another British film was called Peter's Friends" with Kenneth Branagh and Emma Thompson (and Rita Rudner, the stand-up comic, I never saw her in a movie before...)

Ummm...let's see here, as I flip thru the cabinet..."Fried Green Tomatoes", with a powerful lesbian couple. "The Color Purple" with Whoopie Goldberg (and Oprah?)

"Man of the Year" about the 1992 Playgirl Centerfold of the Year (true story) who got outed or came out, or something like that.

"We Were One Man" (German flick, WWII soldiers)

"The Outcasts" (Taiwanese film, in Mandarin with sub-titles, movie made from the book "The Crystal Boys" which everybody on this MB is guarenteed to LOVE reading if you can find a copy) FABULOUS film about a fey bar owner and his "family" of gay street youth. They make a real home with each other amidst huge adversity. I cry whenever I watch it.

"Macho Dancer" (Phillipines, in Tagalog, English sub-titles). Another really GREAT film about the lives of 'rent boys' working in a Go-Go bar in Manila. It created quite a stir in the P.I. when it came out, got banned all over the place, which proves that it's good and hit a nerve. Incidentally, amazing dance scenes in that one... Pecs and abs for days and baby oil and loads of slithering together in shower scenes, all on stage...

I'll think of more if ya want...this is fun...

Has anybody else seen any of these movies, or are they in my library only cuz I live overseas, or what?



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icon6.gif More...And Now You Made Me Have to Watch All These Again...  [message #9989 is a reply to message #9988] Tue, 29 April 2003 13:35 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Boys in the Band, of course...
Victor Victoria
Maurice
Torch Song Trilogy
La Cages Aux Folles I, II, and III
The Birdcage
Mass Appeal, Jack Lemmon mentoring a young bi priest
And the Band Played On
An Early Frost
Arabian Nights (in Arabic or Turkish, can't remember...hehe)
One of Pedro Aldomovar (sp?) films called El Deputado, Spanish

"For a Lost Soldier", Netherlands (sub-titles again), very politically incorrect, adult/youth taking place in WWII. Love story, not about abuse.


***DON'T watch the next three if depressed or an abuse survivor unless you're prepared for very strong stuff, please...

"I Know My Name is Steven" true story about a young boy kidnapped and kept for years, eventually excapes, how he tries to adjust to life back with his family...VERY scary and sad.

"Abuse", 1973, US, teen actor called Sbarza. Film-maker making film about a teen being physically abused by parents, they fall for each other. The theme is asking the question of what is abuse and what isn't.

"The Boys of St. Vincent" Canadian film, chilling and awful, about an orphanage in Newfoundland and the abuse litigation brought 20 years later. True, which makes it even more gut-wrenching, and important. Gave me bad dreams after watching it.

****Please PLEASE remember my advisory notices about those three films above****


Very sweet film by Louis Malle, in French, of course, "Au Revoir Les Enfants"

Kids (Guss van Zant film, pretty discouraging and depressing, actually)

"The Lion in Winter" (Richard the Lion-hearted was gay...)

"Little Big Man", Dustin Hoffman with a native American transgender after him...great acting also by Chief Dan George

"The Full Monty" has a gay couple in it, eventually...

The documentaries "Before Stonewall" and "The Life and Times of Harvey Milk".

"That Certain Summer" with Hal Holbrook as a gay Dad coming out to his young teen son.

Brideshead Re-visited...amazing mini-series, awesome scenery, music, acting was awesome...

Boogie Nights
Consenting Adult
The Dresser
Another Documentary, called "Drag Time"
Dreams For An Insomniac
Four Weddings and a Funeral
Intimate Contact (British early AIDS mini-series, excellent...)
In and Out
Lust in the Dust (with the famous and outrageous "Divine")...a must-see for sure

ANYTHING with Divine, actually...

Lord of the Flies (the 1963 one is better than the re-make, I think)

Meatballs
My Beautiul Laundrette (another VERY good British film)

I'm tired now, more later...

OK?



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Lord of the Flies...  [message #9990 is a reply to message #9989] Tue, 29 April 2003 14:27 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I've seen both. The re-make I watched in school so that is most recent in my mind, the black-and-white one I only saw when I was a tiny kid and it was scary as hell. Or was it only in black-and-white because my parents had a black-and-white TV once upon a time? Too long ago to remember.

Anyway, I liked the remake. Wasn't as scary, but then again, I was more than twice as old too. Might have been more than three times as old actually. I undressed the "bad" boy with my eyes, man he was gorgeous, and considering he wears almost nothing towards the end, that was quite a feat I guess. Smile

Very real and scary story though. Shows the human mind isn't that sophisticated after all. Brr! *shivers*


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icon7.gif Some gay movie list sites  [message #9994 is a reply to message #9845] Tue, 29 April 2003 19:12 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Hi Marc

Here are some links with gay movie lists:



Take care

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Re: Lord of the Flies... Ahhhhh YES!!! Good ones both  [message #9996 is a reply to message #9990] Tue, 29 April 2003 23:07 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Re: Man Looked...  [message #9997 is a reply to message #9988] Tue, 29 April 2003 23:11 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Huggs Man tight.....

I am trying to compile as complete a listing as is possible so I will add all you can find....

As much info as possible helps me to verify the exact film in question.

Thanks
Marc



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You probably already have these titles on your list  [message #10000 is a reply to message #9845] Wed, 30 April 2003 00:26 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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L.I.E.
Tea With Mussolini
The Hanging Garden
Voodoo Academy
Jeffrey
Caligula
A Very Natural Thing
Brideshead Revisited
Pink Narcissus
Flesh Gordon


Hugs, Charlie
icon7.gif Hey, Ted - welcome to the board!  [message #10002 is a reply to message #9994] Wed, 30 April 2003 00:41 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Taking notes. These are interesting movies you guys are mentioning.  [message #10006 is a reply to message #9990] Wed, 30 April 2003 03:24 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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It is better to be doubly sure than to miss one.......  [message #10008 is a reply to message #10000] Wed, 30 April 2003 08:57 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I do now...... I reciently watched it and it was wonderful.....  [message #10009 is a reply to message #9987] Wed, 30 April 2003 09:02 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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The whatever he was Mr Ripley?  [message #10026 is a reply to message #10000] Wed, 30 April 2003 22:07 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Lord that boy was so stupid



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Re: The whatever he was Mr Ripley?  [message #10030 is a reply to message #10026] Wed, 30 April 2003 22:44 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Amazing Mr. Ripley, I think?

Also, Marc, check out "Total Eclipse", about the gay poet Rimbaud, played by DiCaprio, perhaps his best acted film ever.

And of course the old "Oscar Wilde" movie, and the more recent one with Jude Law's buns on view. hehe



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Got em now I do...... More, More, Mooooooooorrrrrrreeeeeee....LOL  [message #10037 is a reply to message #10030] Thu, 01 May 2003 09:08 Go to previous message
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