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icon7.gif Duncan...  [message #10478] Wed, 14 May 2003 21:04 Go to next message
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Hey everyone. Wanted to say hello, and all that.

Basically, this guy called Duncan, who works as a builder at the place where I work, and is exceptionally cute. Saw him for the first time about 2 months ago, and was in complete awe, and was also quite obsessed with him. Have become to know him more and more (before you ask, he is unavailable). He's 26, been to Uni, has a degree - found no jobs, and has done building work since. Very clever, very yummy, etc. Unfortunately, he has a kid, and girlfriend. So, he has sacrificed going back to Uni, to do another degree in something else, in order to be a parent, which is so harsh... I mean, the pregnancy was unknown to him (as he had split with said girlfried), and then met up later, she was up the duff, and with his child.

At work, I like to go and find him and have a chat, which I think is mutually enjoyed. As I am based quite a distance from him, in the area, and he seems to manage to walk past my window everytime he goes somewhere (which he really doesn't need to do). Also, eye contact is such a thing. About a month ago, he was working opposite my office, and we would catch each other's eyes many many times a day (perhaps 12 or so). It felt a little awkward - but at the time, I was head-over-heals with him, so it didn't on my behalf). Now, it is good to find him, and chitchat. I think, he feels, that he is 26, with child and girlfriend, and is restricted in terms of outside friends. Must insist on having a drink with him at some point. I just don't want to get infatuated with him again, because I know he is taken, and therefor there would be no point.

On the plus side, I have 2000 cigarettes, which would cost in the area of £500 in the UK, which I got for £50 because a friend brought them back from Thailand. Wooo hoooO!

Hope everyone is well.

Best Regards,

Dan.
icon12.gif Hi Dan! Nice to see you here!  [message #10487 is a reply to message #10478] Thu, 15 May 2003 01:25 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Duncan sounds very delicious...but you do seem to have a thing for unavailable men...hehehe

What about the ever-lovely-and-elusive Chester?? Update please!



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Hey Dan  [message #10489 is a reply to message #10478] Thu, 15 May 2003 02:34 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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It's always nice to see you drop by.

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Re: Hi Dan! Nice to see you here!  [message #10499 is a reply to message #10487] Thu, 15 May 2003 20:21 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Okay, well, Chester. First off, met him about 2 weeks ago, and he was with his GIRLFRIEND. Hmmmm, who looks slightyl anorexic (most probably isn't - but just looks a *little* too thin). She is wonderful, really nice, mature, and just a very very nice person (damn her!). Um, Chester on the other hand seems so amazingly immature, and childish, so I'm not entirely sure what's going on there. Also, we were sat down doing something, and Chester was behind me, and threw his arms around me (trying to stop me from doing something)... and that was fine, he eventually let off. Then, he was still behind me, kind of resting against me, and started playing with my hair... the bit right at the nape of one's neck. Hehhee, was *such* a nice feeling. And he didn't say a word... he is like that though... And I'm not sure what his girlfriend thought of it. No one said anything... and I guess it was just palmed off as "Oh, that's just Chester, he's like that with Dan..." etc.

So I dunno. He is still very much a sweetie.

Duncan - yeah, still yummy. Totally unavailable, but is nice to talk to and stuff. Not sure I want to get too close, you know, incase I do really fall for him, and then nothing would happen, and I'd get annoyed.

He's still nice though. So, well, yeah, confusion reigning again.

Well, best be off. Nice hearing from everyone.

Dan.
Duncz, the brickwork god  [message #10500 is a reply to message #10478] Thu, 15 May 2003 21:18 Go to previous message
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Sounds like he wouldnt mind a friend who cares about him as much as you do, matey
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