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So we're not together or anything. If we live nearly halfway around the world from each other, what would it really matter if one of us goes on a date?
Point is, why the F#£¤!!! did you have to LIE to me yesterday when I asked what you were going to do?! Go out and bingo with your mum is a HELL of a lot different than going on a date!
I told you when I went on a date (and it didn't work out at all, but that's a different story), why couldn't you have shown me the same courtesy? After all the love-yous we shared, didn't I deserve more? I feel so angry and upset and outright betrayed right now!
I'd been HAPPY for you if you'd told me the truth but no. You were going to go bingo with your mum.
You don't wanna know what I'm thinking about you right now!  Whatever it was we had, it's OVER. Finished.
"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."
-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
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Garrett
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Registered: January 1970
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Im so sorry for you. But at least you have knowledge. At least you know what and who you are and even what love is even though its over between you and a person that you obviously cared about. Hope you feel better but god knows I wont!
Garrett
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saben
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Registered: May 2003
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Don't go throwing something out the window so easily. Someone did something that hurt you, sure, but just wait 'til the pain stops being so intense before whacking them in the face... We all have different ways of dealing with pain, but just ending a close relationship won't help either or you.
Look at this tree. I cannot make it blossom when it suits me nor make it bear fruit before its time [...] No matter what you do, that seed will grow to be a peach tree. You may wish for an apple or an orange, but you will get a peach.
Master Oogway
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marc
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Registered: March 2003
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If I read this correctly you are talking about an online friendship, and a bit more, am I right?
If so, I think I may have a bit of insight as far as that goes. An online relatonship is a very tenuous thing. The parties involved become totally enraptured within the framework of their friendship and they work hard to try and bridge the gap that geography has put between them. When friendships grow to such an intensity as this it becomes ever difficult to maneuver in each parties "real" world without running the risk of hurting the feelings of each other.
I know you get your feelings hurt easily. Perhaps your friend was meerly trying to spare you from harm. Talk to him...
Just something to think about....
Marc
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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He was trying to spare hurt feelings. I dunno, just a thought. Cheer up sweets. You may salvage a good week?
Much Love,
Kevin
"Be excellent to each other, and, party on dudes"!
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While I knew I felt attracted sexually to both sexes from an extremely early age (though in the beginning it was more simple curiosity than anything else), that didn't really help me in the days to come.
Our lives seem to share a lot of similarities, but I am one of those grown-ups you seem scared of (I'm slightly over twice your age), so I doubt there was much I could tell you that would help you.
Just know with total certainty that there is nothing about me you need to feel envy about. Spare that for some more successful person instead, it would be too sad if you would feel bad because of me. 
-L
"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."
-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
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saben
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On fire! |
Registered: May 2003
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Is a stage everyone has been through. I don't think it fair for ANYONE to compare their past or their lives; we've all been through different things, we've all been able to cope with it (even if only by a hair's breadth) and we all (hopefully) have become better people because of it. What is easy for one person may be a mountain to another, but that mountain was still a mountain to that person...
Look at this tree. I cannot make it blossom when it suits me nor make it bear fruit before its time [...] No matter what you do, that seed will grow to be a peach tree. You may wish for an apple or an orange, but you will get a peach.
Master Oogway
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Guest
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Registered: March 2012
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on nifty stories,i believe the author is dan hanratty or something is a story called working it out.tis a damn good read.Love and relationships are like a garden.Keeping ahead of the weeds,watering the flowers and pruning is work.So dust off your pride and work it out.good luck...rob
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And this day STARTED OUT really well... 
Well maybe .... 
Garrett, I am NOT a person you want to feel envious of... 
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