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I am glad you came online to tell us this. Seeing you again makes me really happy.
To all the new ones, Ashley's one of the friendliest guys you're ever likely to find on the internet.  He's got a really big heart, and lots of compassion.
Take care, my awesome friend...! Luv ya.
Hugs:
-L
"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."
-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13800
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However hard it is to rememebr, that each perosn who is abused suffers 100% of his or her own pain. There is nothing greater than 100%, so a comparison between degrees of abuse is not useful.
Others have had more horrible experiences than you and less horroible. That does not mean your own experiences are more or less unpleasant than you feel. Just different from theirs.
Multiple Personality is a marvellous refuge from emotional pain. UNfortunately many peole do not understand the sanctuary it provides and try to "cure" what is not necessary to be cured without the "system's" consent.
http://www.astraeasweb.net/plural/personal.html may help those who don't understand the phenomenon to get more to grips with it.
As for me, no "job" per se, but I am working freelance.
GREAT to see you.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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Garrett
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Toe is in the water |
Registered: January 1970
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Hi Ashley,
I know you dont know me but many people have advised me to seek advice from you. Ive asked for help and advice on this board, and have gotten lots, but no one has been through stuff that I have been through, so people said to talk to you because you have. Im 14, have had an awful past, and need help. Im sure that you can help(or says Timmy, Shem, and Lenny). Anyways, when you do get back from where ever you are or are going, can you please email me or something.
Garrett
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On fire! |
Location: currently So Cal
Registered: May 2002
Messages: 1179
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Been thinkin' 'bout you and the roos. Hope to see you 'round here regularly again soon.
Think good thoughts,
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trevor
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Really getting into it |
Registered: November 2002
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Take some back to share with your new friends, okay? Great to hear from you!
Garrett - I hope you are patient - not like me! I think Ash has been offline over a month now (geezer memory warning) and I'll bet he has load of messages to catch up on when he does eventually come back.
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saben
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On fire! |
Registered: May 2003
Messages: 1537
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We haven't really talked much, but you've always been a cool guy that's been around and I'm happy to hear from you. Things since you left have been maybe a little quiet, but recently picked up and are going nicely, I think.
Jake had a close friend that had multiple personalities, I only saw one, the others seldom manifested themselves, but yeah, he was a cool, albeit slightly messed up guy.
It's pretty sad the stuff that happens to people, but please pass our love, support and cyber hugs along to them all.
As timmy said, you just can't compare bad stuff in life. What you went through was hard for you, that's all that matters, each person goes through their own personal hell at sometime in life, and each must try and work at turning it into positive growth experience as much as possible.
Thanks for taking care of things back in Aus with me while I'm here in Japan. It's nice to know that I'm not going to go back and find the place in ruins, because Ash is there looking after it
Anyway, hope things are going well and I'm glad you and Garrett can talk; hopefully it will be a good experience for both of you. Anyway, talk to you later some time.
-Shem
Look at this tree. I cannot make it blossom when it suits me nor make it bear fruit before its time [...] No matter what you do, that seed will grow to be a peach tree. You may wish for an apple or an orange, but you will get a peach.
Master Oogway
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I didn't expect a phone call telling me you were looking for me online, but i got it. I wasn't expecting a post here, but i just found out you did. Your just full of surprises, especially the letter you sent me. Thank you so much. You really made my day today. my letter will be sent soon. til we chat again.
luv ya buddy
Brian
To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.
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Ashley you are awsome. So glad to hear from you. I along with many others have missed you. Be happy, and live everyday to the fullest. You deserve it.
Much love,
Kevin
"Be excellent to each other, and, party on dudes"!
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