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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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No names at all. But someone has been driven away from here. He also left my email list earlier. He emailed me to say why, but not what, not who. But someone caused him to go.
I don't find that pleasing in any way at all.
There is nothinhg wrong with a disagreement here. There is something wrong when someone packs his bags and leaves and tells me he was driven away.
So let us think a little, please, and deal with ourselves.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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Garrett
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Registered: January 1970
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That is so sad. I really think that you should tell the person who drove the other person away, but not telling the name publicly. Thats awful. I am going to really think about what I say now so that I dont do anything to drive people away. Huh.
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to our lost friend, I don't know what or who made you leave, but I hope you left on your own terms, not because someone else made you feel unwelcome. I hope that one day you may return to us, give the rest of us a fair shake.
to everyone else, I don't know if I've affronted anyone, but let me say now, it was never my intent.
to our friend who may have hurt someone else without realizing it, I can only ask that you remember what it might be like to be on the receiving end of your own wrath.
to myself, don't ever post anything without thinking how it's gonna affect someone else or on what that effect might be.
to Timmy, I know your heart is hurting now, my friend, but in time, things will come round. You'll see.
It's not the wolf you see you should fear, but all the ones he howls with. Don't be afraid of the song, but don't piss off the choir.
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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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It may also have been someone "from" here who was unpleasant behind the scenes. Simply be yourself, anbd be gentle
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13796
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This virtual place has a long term purpose for some, and short term one for others. In itself that is a good thing. I mind that a person has been driven away.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13796
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I am not even functioning today with Ginnie's horrible death. She was just a cat, but I love her
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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Guest
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On fire! |
Registered: March 2012
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and your the best friend a guy could have.Sorry about your loss.Cats are sooooo lovable and they return love too. I really liked what Warren had to say...The man is a prince.The list is endless of how many good friends that I have met on this board.ALL have added to my life.Believe it or not,I really love marc,though I never met the man.I even like Saben,though I would like to grease his keyboard...hugs..rob
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marc
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Registered: March 2003
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I have read the posts and replies going back some 4 pages of archives....
I have not seen anything that might be awful to cause an untoward exit....
Did I miss something....????
Or is this the result of something which happened elsewhere?
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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Oddly I am unsure. It was stated to me in a way that make sit impossible to reveal what went on.
The end result of "whatever it was" has caused "whoever it is" to say that "whoever they were" has driven him off.
I think it was not a public spat, but some other behaviour that created the problem. But that the board had a part in it.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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marc
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Needs to get a life! |
Registered: March 2003
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Well,
I hardly ever talk with people any more.... Just one or two....
I hope it wasn't something I said or did....
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13796
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I very much doubt it was you, marc. And if it was I hope he says so to you quietly and directly.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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