I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
I can certainly understand the stress and exhaustion involved in big trips like this one! Hang in there and pretty soon you'll be able to relax on the plane and leave the "To Do" lists behind you!
Will you be able to get on-line on the trip? Hope so!