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marc
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Registered: March 2003
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What would your dream date be....
Assuming you are with the perfect person (for you) for the evening, where would you go? What would you do?
What preparations would you make to ensure the evening went as smoothly and perfectly as possible?
Just an idle question
Marc
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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Now let me see.
A show. I adore "Naked Boys Singing", and we'll go and sit in the front row and look and smile a lot. Matinee performance.
Walk hand in hand to a dreamy restaurant, with small portions of a huge variety of food, and eat long and slowly.
Not get drunk. Perhaps a couple of glasses of champagne. Better Kir Royale Framboise. We'll look into each other's eyes across a low candle, in a red vase, and be so obviously a couple.
Taxi back to a hotel. Not his place or my place, but a luxurious hotel with everything "just so". I'd like the bridal suite. Satin sheets. White. An icebucket of chamagne and another of sparkling water.
And a long, slow, and gentle mutual seduction to last all night.
And preparations?
You know, not a single one. The risk of it going wrong is remote, but that makes it all the more sweet. No haircut, but a good very close shave. No cologne, but a light body scent. Relevant body hair trimmed neatly.
A single rose at the hotel. I wondered about having it delivered to the reataurant, but thought it was cheesy.
And I wil be so in love with him that he wil never doubt it for a nanosecond, but I will tell him often.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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I'd shower, put on some casual yet nice clothes (nothing fancy), spray some cologne on myself I suppose.
We'd go to the movies. Preferably, we'd hold hands throughout the feature, maybe touch each other's thighs, perhaps even kiss in the dark, just for a short moment. A simple dinner in a quiet place and an even quieter corner, nothing fancy. Small gentle touches, brushing his arm, the top of his hand... Maybe sharing a smooch...
Afterwards...? If we're tight; spend the night together, just cuddle naked together, no pressure to perform, do nothing other than what simply happens, and then sleep snuggled up close together.
-L
"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."
-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
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Hmmmmm, I'm going to get told of the no no again, but I just can't help it....
We'd start out at a nice restaurant, followed by either a movie or a club, where we could sit and enjoy ourselves.
Now on to the no no.
We would leave from there and find the beach. Hopefully desserted. We'd spread out a blanked, and see what happens awaiting the sunrise to the next day.
Preperation: prolly the blanket, snacks, and drinks ready for the beach adventure.
Just to turn it around a little bit, we could also start the evening out at the beach and watch the sunset to the perfect day, and see where things lead from there.
Brian
P.S. I know, sand don't mix with some things....
To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.
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Note, the sun glasses are already on, hehehehe.
Perfect date, oooh let's see. I'd start with some sort of aquatic activity while the sun is high. Maybe the beach, maybe sailing. In winter months, I'd have to say an afternoon of skiing would be perfect, but nothing too strenuous. More like doing cross country runs, maybe stop along the trail somewhere for a light snack and some hot cocoa.
Next, a lunch/dinner, something exotic, maybe a Japanese steak house or Suchi bar, a place where you can be comfortable and yet discret. Let there be soft lighting, soft jazz and low amounts of alcohol, if any present at all. Why spoil a mood by drowning it in depressants.....
Anyways, after dinner, I'd need something involving two of my favorite turn ons, speed and music. Crank the radio with something to get the blood pumping and find a long stretch of highway, preferably near water, and just step on the accelerator with both feet. Let the music and the blur of the landscape transport you.
At the end of the ride, find a hotel room, something with not only a view, but ideally, a large hot tub. At about this point, brandy would be acceptable, and change the music from something with the heavy beat and guitar acrobatics I love to something more mellow, smooth and sensuous. Again, soft jazz or free form blues comes to mind. Nearly anything with a saxaphone (Except Kenny G! That's just toooo sappy), a deep bass and piano should do, but orchestral stuff would be nice as well.
From the hot tub, well, let your imagination soar. Of course, this obviously isn't the first date, but, well......
Preparations, next to none, other than hotel and restaurant reservations, although I would probably bring along the proper music. Other than that, just make sure you bring a towel.....never go anywhere without your towel, especially if hot tubs, oceans, rivers, lakes or large mountains covered in snow are concerned.
Oh, yes, one more thing.....if the date makes it to the hotel room/hot tub stage, bring muchies and tub toys. Use your imagination on what the tub toys may be for.....heheheheeh.
It's not the wolf you see you should fear, but all the ones he howls with. Don't be afraid of the song, but don't piss off the choir.
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