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Brian, it doesn't  [message #13231] Mon, 11 August 2003 13:42 Go to next message
timmy

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Your whole life depends on the decisions you make, not on whether you are going to get a loan on your business.

Right now the loan feels overwhelmingly important, but that just isn't the case. ALL the loan gives you is a bigger and better business. And bigger and better business headaches. It's the decision that matters, not the loan.

Anyway the business is "just" income. You can earn money so many different ways. One would be to take what you know, and do it in a better location. Another would be to be the local (paid) rose expert, maybe garden designer.

There are so many things that you need to allow in to your world



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Tim is right you know....  [message #13239 is a reply to message #13231] Mon, 11 August 2003 22:14 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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We've talked about this often and you have talents and abilities far beyond what you see for yourself.



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
OK, you;re still puzzled  [message #13423 is a reply to message #13231] Sun, 17 August 2003 10:36 Go to previous message
timmy

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I'm gooing to reply here "non specifically".

You have huge talents. At present you confine those to the world you lknow, the world you are comfortable with. That world includes all the things you find good and al lthe things you hate. If you expand the world to include unknown things you will find that you like the ones you keep. What to never do is add more that you hate.

So, what happens is that your good things start to outweigh the crap things many times over.

If you looked at an interesting occupation, and chose to do it, then the bsiness worries and the business laod woul dmelt into insignificance. You would gain new issues about "how do I do this new occupation", but those you would solve.

I wonder if that helps at all?



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