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questions plesae anyone answer  [message #13602] Sun, 24 August 2003 16:29 Go to next message
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On fire!

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do u think it is possible to stay faithful i na relationship if you are miles and miles away from eachother?
Yes  [message #13607 is a reply to message #13602] Sun, 24 August 2003 17:30 Go to previous messageGo to next message
trevor is currently offline  trevor

Really getting into it

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I have done it, for over a year. But, to be honest, it was my first and only love, and I was confused about myself as well. I looked but did not date. It was worth it.

Is it worth it in your case? I certainly hope so. Some things, like diamonds, are more valuable because of the value we put on them.

Maybe a platonic friend that you can talk to and keep you company and possibly keep you committed would help?

Good to see you here, btw.
Yes.......  [message #13616 is a reply to message #13602] Sun, 24 August 2003 21:06 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

Needs to get a life!

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Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
icon14.gif Yes, for sure!  [message #13621 is a reply to message #13616] Mon, 25 August 2003 02:08 Go to previous message
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My partner Man and I did it for over 5 years. It requires trust (we had been together already for more than 5 years before I took the good job that required toe distance). It requires total honesty, discussing all the possibilities beforehand openly and honestly.

It also requires regular communication by as many methods as you can think of to maintain connections. Man and I spoke together more than once a day by phone, emailed all the time, and visited each other when we could, even for short periods of time.

It was a strain, but it also brought us closer together in a couple of ways.
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