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icon13.gif Cards don't fix anything  [message #13720] Fri, 29 August 2003 05:34 Go to next message
dartagnon is currently offline  dartagnon

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Sometimes it takes something drastic for one person to get across to another the truth of the matter. Sometimes it takes more than a card to tell someone exactly how you DONT feel. There's a situation that a friend of mine finds himself in and someone else feels that they can mess around in his business. Feels that they can find a way to make someone who does not feel a certain way change. Someone who feels that you can "learn to love someone."

In effect, there's a lot of backstabbing going on, and I will not be party to it. No one really should. The persons involved know who they are, and if they really did care, if they really did feel something, whether reciprocated or not, they'd act more like it.

The fact is, someone here is hurting someone else. And that is not what we are about here. Please, take the hint, understand that it is not something you can change, or that someone else can learn. Understand, and just stop. No names necessary, no hard feelings, just let it go.

Just let it go, please. Love isn't about causing pain, and that's what you are doing from behind the scene. Just let it go.



It's not the wolf you see you should fear, but all the ones he howls with. Don't be afraid of the song, but don't piss off the choir.
Re: Cards don't fix anything  [message #13723 is a reply to message #13720] Fri, 29 August 2003 07:41 Go to previous message
timmy

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If it helps, I am sure, really, that I hurt the boy I wanted more than life itself by loving him obsessively. It was not good to realise that. And I also damaged myself very badly.

I did fix it. Far too late.



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