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icon4.gif Learned Values  [message #14311] Tue, 09 September 2003 22:02 Go to next message
smith is currently offline  smith

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We were discussing values that people need today to be accepting and tolerant. Alot of you said that these values are inside you when you're born and you just develop them as you grow. We all need role models to help us decide the right paths to take and give us a clear picture of right and wrong. I found something that more fully explains why I was having trouble making myself clear. What I was questioning was what about the kids who have no one to look to:

'Written By A Child Looking Back'

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you hang my first painting on the fridge and I immediately wanted to paint you another one.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you feed a stray cat and I learned that it was good to be kind to animals.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you make my favorite cake and I learned that the little things can be special things in life.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I heard you say a prayer and I learned that I can talk to God.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you make a meal for a sick friend and I learned that we all have to help take care of each other.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you give your time and money to help people who had nothing and I learned to share.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you take care of our house and I learned to take care of what I am given.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw how you handled your responsibilities, even when you didn't feel good and I learned that I had to be responsible when I grew up.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw tears in your eyes and learned that sometimes things hurt but it's all right to cry.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw that you cared and I wanted to be everything that I could be.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I learned from you most of life's lessons that I needed to know to be a good and productive person.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I looked at you and wanted to say thank you for teaching me all the things I saw when you thought I wasn't looking.
When I thought you weren't looking..........  [message #14313 is a reply to message #14311] Tue, 09 September 2003 22:08 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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I reached out and put my arms round you and hugged you for postng that.



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: Learned Values  [message #14314 is a reply to message #14311] Tue, 09 September 2003 22:32 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

Needs to get a life!

Registered: March 2003
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You're such a sweet person smith....

Keep that quality always....

About the ones without someone to look up to.... It's prolly better just not to know....



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
icon7.gif Wheeeeeeeee!! A timmy hug !!  [message #14315 is a reply to message #14313] Tue, 09 September 2003 22:55 Go to previous messageGo to next message
smith is currently offline  smith

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Thankya......thankyaveramuch Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy :I understand from Lenny that yours are the world's best hugs!!

{{{hugs right back}}}
smith
icon7.gif Thank You, Marc  [message #14317 is a reply to message #14314] Tue, 09 September 2003 22:59 Go to previous message
smith is currently offline  smith

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You'll never know how I treasure those words.
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